My fiance and I have regular sexual activity that includes vaginal and oral sex nearly every time. The last time was last Weds. with Saturday morning being when the symptoms really became uncomfortable and Monday being when the issue was visually apparent.
Hello and welcome to the website.
Herpes doesn't cause flus or 'sickness' I think as you are describing it.
Let's start from the beginning. Have you had a herpes test? What were the results? Did your boyfriend have a herpes test?
This whole year I've been getting lots of flus and feel extremely fatigued. I kept getting tested all the time for STDs but all of the tests showed up negative. Until I realized they don't test for herpes unless you ask specifically. When I found out I was devastated and angry at myself because I gave it to my boyfriend. He was never sick when I first met him. I feel extremely guilty for giving him herpes. He definitely did not deserve that. I love him so much and I have no idea how to tell him.