Hey,
so, I am not technically newly diagnosed but every once in a while I come back to this deep, dark place. A little background:
August 2015 came back to my home country from a year overseas. After coming back I met a man I had been chatting with. Before even agreeing to meet him (it was for potential intimate/relationship reasons) I asked him to get tested for STIs. I had also gotten tested because I would never ask something of someone I wasn't comfortable doing myself. I came back clean as did he.
I didn't realize herpes was not part of standard testing, and