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  1. Hello and salaams to everyone Im a muslin female looking or hoping rather to find a husband and as we're all aware this gift we've been passed really makes it kind of hard to find someone let alone be open and comfortable. So yh that's it in a nutshell. So any muslim brothers here from the UK and are in the same position?
  2. alsalam aliykom sisters and brothers im looking for 7alal inshaAllah .. i have been diagnosed hsv2 since 5 years ago .. my ex wife passed it to me .. i was 32 years old virgin man .. she was my first but ..alhamdulillah i believe that every thing happens for reason .. anyway im here seeking 7alal so we can complete and love each other .. may Allah make it easy for us to find our ways E mail: mohammed_tempe@hotmail.com
  3. I've known my fiance for couple of years, and in our country, before we get married, it is compulsary for the couple to screen for HIV test. The test showed negative for both of us. Then we decided to take an STD test (without any symptoms) just to make sure and this test include Syphyllis, Chlamydia n both type of HSV. The results came with me having negative for all STDs and my fiance having all negative except for HSV-1 (igG blood test). I am under so much pressure right now to consider of calling off the wedding or continue with it. My concern is that how it going to affect my pregnancy and my life as a whole. I love my fiance so much, I try to support him as much as I can. I just have certain worry about my future in terms of pregnancy and whether Im gonna contract HSV-1 oral or genital? Cause my fiance did not show any symptom either on his mounth or genital Anyone can give me advice regarding this..Im so much appreciate it.
  4. Salaam Aleikum wr wb brothers and sisters! It makes me so happy to discover this site. Finding muslims give me soooo much hope, Allhamdullilah. But Im also very curious if there are any somali people out here. I haven't (Living with this for almost 8 years) never met a somali person. I live in Stockholm, Sweden. The muslim community is not so big. We are many muslims but we are not united, subhanaAllah. Sweden has a population of 10 miljons. The muslims are exactly 143 950 people in the whole country Ive lived with this in secret. It burdens me and creates so much fear of loneliness. The first years I use to get depressed but these past years I have accepted my fate. Perhaps I will never marry. Today Im more hopeful and understand that times are changing. Salaam / Best regards Anisa
  5. I just got what I am calling first OB last week. I'm stunned, depressed, sick... list goes on and on. Had several partners before marriage .. been married for 15 years. I've never cheated. Don't think he's cheated or he even was with anyone before me. But I wouldn't bet my life on any one other my own actions. But he's a pretty good guy and promises he has not. I'm in so much pain, I can't breath hardly. Dr says it's for sure herpes. I am awaiting test results. Started Valtrex. I can't even hardly look at my husband now. He's being so sweet and worrried about me but I just want this to go away. Help please. Where do you go from here? Does he for sure need tested ? I don't want to make him sick if he's not and now that I'm having OBs I'm afraid I'll make him sick if I ever have sex with him again. Tests sound like they won't show if he's already carrying it if he's not symptomatic... ??? Im afraid my kids are carrying without knowing now. Want to die almost. How do I go back to my church and my work like this isn't taking over my life ??
  6. Dear All, Has anyone been successfully married after contracting herpes and had children? I mean if I do find a partner but d not want to give her the virus how to I get her pregnant without passing on the virus? How do we live together?
  7. Wondermom

    I'm not ashamed

    I caught herpes from my husband. He cheated on me about three months after we'd been married. We had gotten into an argument, he left and we ceased contact for a day... And he had sex with a younger chick. His symptoms from that didn't actually pop up until last year. And we've been married since 2015. When he was diagnosed. He was in denial... And he's cheated again too. When I was just diagnosed, he is now angry with me... Because I let the two women with whom he'd recently slept with, know I'd tested positive and it was from him. He's angry with me. But I believe I did the right thing ... Apparently it got around to his friends who are now making fun of him. So he's denied it and said I'm crazy. Do I have a right to be upset!?
  8. saabbu

    Genital herpes

    Hi, Few days before i have affected by GENITAL HERPES totally frustrated & confused about my career. The girl (who is working with my office) through whom i got the virus is absolutely ok but i got the symptoms. I read lot of articles in few days about herpes even though i have some doubt i need some clarification guys please help me out 1) Can I get married with any other girl who is not affected by HERPES? 2) Can i have childrens?? 3) Is there any future chance of affecting my wife OR children's?? 4) Can i lead my life in a peaceful way? I need to inform my fiance about this virus? 5) As i got it from a girl who is absolutely not having any symptoms and it spread in me likewise can i spread to anyone like my Wife? because the girl i am going to marry is very good girl i don't want her to affect because of my mistake. Please some one answer for my questions i am confused and i feel lost my life...
  9. Pretty

    Hopelessly In Love

    I'm really concerned about my ex-boyfriend not accepting the new HSV+ me. I was diagnosed with G&OHSV1 in August. He left town 10 months ago, assuming opportunities would be greater for him now He's doing great and we've always kept some contact since he left. He has been asking me for months to consider relocating. I was stubborn, the type to only think about leaving the city when I'm outside of the city but HSV has really changed my whole outlook on life. We were together since 2011 and I've always imagined when things get right and stable {we are still young} he would be my future husband w/ a big o' family all that good stuff. *we were together up until the day he left After he left the communication fell off plus the constant arguing led to the untimely demise of our relationship. Will he still love me? Could this virus make our history null and void? Am I being too naive to think that he would. Have you ever forgiven someone for this.. have anyone forgiven you? Even if he does accept, I'm new to this, how can I help him to understand that I will protect him when I can't really elaborate on it myself. What will I say, what will I do next if I'm rejected? Can this crush my confidence to date normally? He plans to come to visit next month should I tell him before or after? Or maybe just leave it alone an start a new life , avoid him and the pain all together.
  10. Assalaam Alaikum Brothers and Sisters, I just just signed up and thought this is worth a try in helping me InshaAllah I am hoping this website will help me in my search. I reverted last year to Islam. Alhamdulillah. However, I am living with hsv2 after contracting it from an ex who never told me. I am very embarrassed by this virus and I prefer to marry someone who has the same situation InshaAllah. I believe it's easier for me. It decreases the chances of me being rejected, I believe. I am Black. 31yrs young hehe Never married. Have no kids. Living in Toronto, Canada. My ideal match would be male (28-35yro) who also resides in Canada. I'm not sure if there's a forum already on this subject. My apologies in advance. Allah Hafiz.
  11. Assalaam Alaikum Brothers and Sisters, I am hoping this website will help me in my search. I reverted last year to Islam. Alhamdulillah. However, I am living with hsv2 after contracting it from an ex who never told me. I am very embarrassed by this virus and I prefer to find to marry someone who has the same situation InshaAllah. I believe it's easier for me. It decreases the chances of me being rejected, I believe. I am Black. 31yro. Never married. Have no kids. Living in Toronto, Canada. My ideal match would me male (28-35yro) who also resides in Canada. I'm not sure if there's a forum already on this subject. My apologies in advance.
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