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  1. Hello. I've already been diagnosed with genital herpes. But now I'm nervous I may also have oral herpes. I've been getting what I believe to be pimples around my mouth (not clusters, one little dot at a time), but I got nervous it might be oral herpes so I went to get tested. Hopefully they can find out. For now, I'm preparing myself for this new normal and trying to treat it like it is, without taking the medication. I'm nervous about washing my face and putting on makeup and transferring it to other parts of my face. I do wash my hands obsessively, but I know that won't always
  2. Hi! Im a new member here and I'm from the Philippines. I just got out of a 9-year relationship as I just recently found out my boyfriend has had relations with hookers and I believe he also hooked up with strangers on online dating sites based on what I found out. He was my first boyfriend and the only guy I slept with. I only recently have been experiencing the symptoms of Herpes since the 2nd week of March. Last time me and my ex got intimate, he had sores on his penis but he said it was just because of his soap and the friction caused when we have sex. I got tested as soon as I was having r
  3. Hi guys i had a unprotected one night stand on the 15/6/19..i had all the usual symptoms red dots on glans which stung..flu like symptoms..all in a three week period of exposure,unfortunately at the time i didnt think of herpes and it wasnt until i started to research that i came across herpes. I have suffered from ohvs1 for over 20 years I waited 19 weeks to have an igg and my results came back as follows Hsv1..>62.2 Hvs2..<0.500 NEGATIVE <0.9 EQUIVOCAL 0.9-1.1 POSITIVE >..1.1 I guess im worried that my hvs2 of< 0.500 is still the process
  4. Learningtolivewithhsv

    First disclosure. PRAY FOR ME

    So I am new to the herpes world. I was diagnosed with ghsv-1 on May 17th. I was dating two guys at once (one I was sexually active with and someone else). The last person I had sex with, I am pretty sure he’s the one that gave it to me. I did disclose to all of my sex partners using text free because I was too embarrassed to reveal myself. But anyway, today I disclosed to the other guy I was seeing when I found out that I was gHSV-1 positive. We have been seeing one another one to two time a week and have planned basically our whole summer out. Even though he wanted to take it slow we are most
  5. Hi guys I am worried if I got herpes. I have gone to the doctor and they have all said I am fine, I recently had Oral sex from a girl I met. I had it done two times. The first time I was fine and the next time, I felt pain in my urine. Uti tests and stds tests expect for Herpes was done and I was good. The pain went away but I have these red sores and I am confused if they are anything? The doctor said they are normal but I just want some feedback. Thank you guys please comment. My pictures are there https://ibb.co/mV8jbp https://ibb.co/jqnubp https://ibb.co/fGze99 https
  6. flowerblossom245

    I need help.

    I was recently diagnosed with HSV 1 a week ago and the emotional strain has been horrible. I’m the type of person who hates the unknown, so I’m trying to figure out if I have it genitally or orally. I had sex with someone who has been tested for herpes, but he doesn’t remember which strain he has. He hasn’t had an outbreak in years and has taken medicine, so my doctor initially said the chance was extremely low that he gave it to me (especially because it was only for about 1 min and that was it.) I get mouth ulcers regularly and I also get what I believe is a cold sore right in the corner of
  7. Hi everyone. So I’ve had these bumps and sores and also some yellowish discharge and idk what it is! I looked everything up online and it says its Genital herpes. Me and my boyfriend have only been with each other so idk how I could’ve gotten it and he swore he hasnt cheated or anything and I really don’t think he would. Just wondering if these pictures look like anything to you guys, thank you. Just please tell me if it looks like anything I’m totally freaking out. https://imgur.com/a/FEvcayT
  8. Hello people well let me start by saying I've suspected that I've had HSV for years now me and my wife. But I've been to afraid to come to her with it. She's had fever blisters as she calls them and she gets huge painful bumps and clusters of blisters at the top of her butt crack and she has major irritation down there often. Which makes me believe we have it. I dont usually get anything but itching and as of lately I have irritation inside my penis and on the head but never had an outbreak. Well I had an encounter with a sex worker I used a condom but for some reason she decided to put l
  9. Need some advice
  10. I don’t even know where to begin. But I had unprotected sex with somebody which all his test came back negative today. (Still waiting on my results) so i went to the urgent care this Wednesday and they told me I had vaginitis which I really don’t know Much about it I just know it has something to do with bacteria and yeast that grows cause I have some inflammation at the bottom entrance of my vagina and I have a lump on my perineum and around my anus there are spots look like white heads kinda I don’t know I also had anal sex which after me and partner was done with that I was bleeding cause i
  11. New&Scared

    Desperate for advice!!!

    Hi all, I'm desperate for advice as someone newly diagnosed who made a silly decision. Please don't judge, just hear me out. Following the first sexual encounter with someone I have been dating, I starting feeling weird down below. I had had a Hollywood wax 2 days before I had sex, so I attributed it to this, until it got worst. I went to the sexual health clinic convinced I had picked up some kind of infection from the waxing , but was diagnosed with HSV 1. To say that I was devasted was an understatement. I knew I had to disclose to my recent partner as I am sure that he had
  12. I took an STD mid November to ease my mind because I’d been getting a redness around my foreskin after having sex with my girlfriend, I haven’t had any other partners in the past 10 months so once I passed the STD testing I did some research and concluded it’d ben balanitis. So so here’s when things get tricky, this Tuesday after sex I pull out and feel a painful bump on the side of penis and now it seems to be a blister woke up the next day has another and I woke up this morning with another! I’m freaking scared as hell right now setting up a doctors appointment ASAP
  13. Hello everyone Diagnosed just this week, I’m 30 years old and in a long term ‘monogamous’ relationship of 5 years. Just before Christmas I found out my partner had an affair, and we were attempting to move past it. However this has thrown a spanner in the works. The girl he had the affair with does NOT have herpes as she works in the medical professional and had a blood test for it only just before their affair started, and I have seen proof of this. We had sex New Year’s Day and the following day my partner commented that he had a cut on his penis; having researched this appe
  14. On Halloween, I got drunk (I this isn't an excuse) and slept with this guy I've been talking to for about a month now. I now feel completely guilty I didn't tell him that I have the herpes virus (I've only been recently diagnosed only about 1.5 months ago). I don't know what to say to him, or how to bring up that I have the virus in a conversation. Need help! Has anyone done this before and have stats/information I can tell him while trying to tell him.
  15. PLEASE READ!! NEED ADVICE!!! I think I have herpes but the doctor says I have nothing to worry about!! I dated a guy for 2 years, we broke up and he had sex with a girl, who had sex with a guy, who has sex with a girl that 100% has herpes. Although I'm not sure, I believe the virus had been transmitted to all of the people involved. After my ex had sex with the girl who potentially has herpes, I slept with him (this may have been close to a month after they had sex). When I had sex with him after he slept with her, it was unprotected and I had noticed a small sore on his penis that was bleedin
  16. Hi, ive posted here before about this strange spaced out rash that I have on my groin. It’s now been about 16 days since I first noticed one red spot. Then a few days later I noticed this blistery/pimple thing that popped up nearby and for two weeks they just kept popping up individually. On my last post I had comments from people saying it most likely looked like something bacterial. I’ve been trying to do some research on outbreaks with no prodrome but I can’t find anything! I had no tingling, burning, itching sensations in that area before I noticed the first spot. I literally just not
  17. Hi, I just found this site, and want to say hi, and just find out if you all felt angry, sad, depressed and scared, as well as feeling a bit unclean and like used goods too? My partner of three months only chose to tell me he had herpes after about a week of having sex with him. I feel angry with myself for not using a condom, but also, really angry with him for thinking it wasnt a big enough deal to tell me straight away. He said he got it when he was twenty from a back packing travelling friend, and had not had any symptoms since then (thirty years). We do love each other very mu
  18. Hi, I am pretty sure I have hsv2. Have had hsv1 for years. I need advice. I don't know what to do. I Have never been so afraid in all my life. I was with a guy 3 weeks ago and we didn't have sex but, we did grind and no condom. Within a day I felt very uncomfortablein my area. Within 2 weeks nearly to the day pain, rash,pimple like red spots no eruption. Tail bone pain, eye pain,burning etc. He says he didn't give it to me ok. No sex with anyone in 6 mos. I went to Dr she's saying no it's not hsv2. I know it is. I just got back in contact with my ex and he is the love of my life. Litera
  19. Hey all, I am currently traveling abroad and about two weeks ago I had a protected sex encounter with a woman I had just met. It was a big drunken mistake. Less than 48 hours later I had red spots spreading out from my groin to my upper thighs. I also had a small rash at the base of my penis (on the underside). On the top base in my pubic hair region I had multiple (20 or so) red bumps on my pubic hair. The total spots/bumps on groin had to have been around 50 or more. A few days later I noticed some had small pimple like bumps with small white heads on the hair follicle. They were
  20. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I've recently had it confirmed (after conflicting results since 14') that I do have genital herpes from a scumbug who thought it was okay not to tell me he had it. Well since having this I've been experiencing extremely sharp pains in my anus, there's no sores but I do know I have a small case of hemmorids. Basically I'm wondering if those pains are herpes related because now my boyfriend has been experiencing these pains and keeps asking me what do they mean. Since we've been together he's been tested and been negative, he's been tested twice th
  21. ScaredBean

    Help me... I'm scared...

    Hi there... I'm Nikki. I'm 19 and I live in New Jersey, USA. I've been with my boyfriend (main partner, J) for about six months now. We're in an open relationship. I was dating someone for a few weeks before breaking it off. The last time I had sex with that guy was about a month ago. Around a week ago I started experiencing intense itching, which I chalked up to a yeast infection (which I've had before) and didn't worry too much. But I was scratching a lot. And my nails are sharp. Also, J and I had really rough sex around that time. Not long after I started experiencing pain/discomfort,
  22. Hello to anyone reading this I am currently in my first ever outbreak, and was diagnosed on Saturday, although my symptoms started on Tuesday 11th and I was pretty sure it was herpes before going to the clinic. When the nurse looked at me she winced, so it know it is a bad outbreak, and when she took a culture from the tissue I screamed in absolute agony, I have never felt anything like this pain. I am suffering from pretty much every symptom.. flu, muscle aches, fatigue, pain from the blisters, burning sensations, tingling etc... I was given medication when I went, and the nurse
  23. Hi, I haven't been officially diagnosed yet but my dr says there's strong chance that it could be herpes. I had UTI symptoms and was given meds to help, (cephalexin which is in the the same family as penicillin which I'm allergic to). Two days later and after shaving, I started getting bumps in my vaginal area which being who I am, tried to pop then thinking they were ingrown hairs or pimples. Well by the time my dr looked at them she decided they looked like herpes. I've looked at so many pictures and it looks nothing like any other outbreaks I've seen. I'm so confused as to what it coul
  24. I went to the doctors today but didn't think it was anything since i have only had one sex partner my entire life and the same on for the past 2 years. but the doctor said i had the first outbreak and took tests to see if it for sure was herpes. she told me to tell my boyfriend and when i did i asked him if he saw anyone and had sex with anyone when we were broken up, he says he hasn't, yet the doctor say i probably got in in the last 2-3 weeks and that is when he and i had sex. he doesn't show symptoms of it and i haven't had sex or oral sex with anyone else, is it forsure from him?? because
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