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  1. TaylorNicks


    Hello! I’m new here, I found out about 8 months ago that I am living with Herpes. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months. I was infected last January. I was out with friends and went to an after party at a mutual friends, friends, party. I ended up getting drugged and raped. I woke up the next morning, covered in my own blood and in an unfamiliar place. Once I got home, I realized I had the worst pain in my genital area. Later to get tested and be positive for herpes. It’s one thing to have herpes, it’s another to have received them through rape. Anyway, When I found out, I didn’t tell my boyfriend, I was unsure how he would react. It came out one night when I was drunk and he was so angry with me. We are still together and moving to a new state together. But he continues to bring up the fact that I have it and he is terrified he’s going to get it. How can I comfort him, how can we get our relationship back to how it was before he knew? We used to be extremely sexually active (twice a day), now it’s like twice a month, with a condom. My boyfriend could not cope with the fact that i had it and that he still has not gotten it, he made me get a third test done for his satisfaction. Ive now had 4 tests done. Two came back slightly positive, like .2% over the “ inconclusive” results, one completely negative, and one positive. Help?? What does this mean? I have done research for a black market cure, has anyone else? I found one that is being studied in the Caribbean and Mexico. Has anyone else seen anything else about this? Or know any homeopathic cures? Thanks for your help. And for reading this long post!
  2. Prettypony

    Hard night last night

    So last night once the movie was over. We were laying in bed talking as usual before we fall asleep. And, like usual, we start kissing, which becomes quite passionate, and he's rubbing my back, and touching me the way he usually does. Then he tries to put his hands down the back of my pants, skin to skin, and I panic, and stop him right away. I am in full OB right now, and I don't want him touching anywhere near that area. He is aware of this too. But it breaks my heart, because I want to feel his hands all over me, I want to feel him inside of me, I just want it to be like it was before, and I start to cry. The emotions are too much, the loss is so new, so strong, so painful. The fears and doubts start to kick in. The voices in my head that tell me this won't be enough for him, that I won't be enough for him, the I am not good enough anymore play over and over in my head, like a broken record. I dry my eyes, he laughs playfully when I gently push his hand away, continues to kiss me and carcasses me, but over my pants this time. I please him orally, and we fall asleep together. Is he content with just that during my breakouts, will that be enough? How many outbreaks will I have? Will I be one of the woman that get them monthly with their periods? How do I live without that intimacy that was such a big part of our relationship. So sensual, so romantic, so comforting, and so close? I miss being with him in that way already and this is my very first OB. How am I going to do this? And again, I'm crying......sometimes I think finding someone from one of those hsv dating sites would be easier, then I even actually look on the site, and while they all seem like decent, kind, wonderful men, they are NOT him, and I just want to be with him, and then I'm crying, and upset all over again. Still trying to stay strong, but it's so hard.
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