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about two weeks ago I kissed a girl and let her give me head. She supposedly gaave head to a guy who has herpes on his genitals, but she had no visible sores on her mouth at all at the time, what should I do? Or what should I worry about?

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Way too many questions..

Was he having an outbreak?

Does she know she's hsv positive?

If no, and no - your chances are slim - all you can do is wait - you can be tested for antibodies in 6-8 weeks I think??? it's posted somewhere here... but that is not a definate test. You'll have to wait to see if you or she has an outbreak or is positive. Ask her those questions if you don't know - and plan on getting tested just in case - try not to freak out - you have been exposed, but may not be infected.

good luck

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lasmom, would you think that I would have a problem if the girl did not have any active sores in her mouth? And how long would it take to feel symptoms of this disease?

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I would think you would have no problem if she DOES NOT have herpes... does she?

if the other guy had active sores - chances are high she has it.

If she has it and no sores, and hasn't had an outbreak within a few weeks I believe the stat is 2% if she's shedding the virus - so odds are you're OK - but there still IS a chance. Find out if she has it.

Symptoms can show anytime - few days after on - some people are asymptomatic for years. Are you having symptoms? If you let this consume you your mind will convince you that you do - so stay calm, check out the facts first.

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No, there are no signs that she has herpes. And I am not having any symptoms at all. I am just worried because nothing like this has ever happened to me. Plus, I believe if she does not have any active sore in her mouth, chances are that I will not be infected.

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Well, look at this as a learning experience then - respect yourself and get to know your partners before their partners -

I wish someone had taught me that a long time ago - actually, I wish someone had taught my x-husband's x-GF that....there would be three people HSV free.....

safe sex & smart sex - good luck.

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