its all good player

[Guest Anonymous]

I have had genital herpes for 11 months now and i dont give a fuck. the bitch that gave it to me didnt tell me she had it, so why should i tell anyone. I have already given it to three other girls at my college and i dont feel bad at all. thats what they get for taking a risk a letting me fuck them. The people that have it the less alone i am. so i say to everyone with herpes, its all good player. Get nasty!

[Guest Anonymous]

ever heard of karma? someday you will meet someone and you will love her so much but because of the woman you have hurt and ruined you will not get to be with the one you love. I got herpes from a man just like you he hates woman and infects as many beautiful girls as he can. he is 36 and the most alone miserable man I have ever met. he will NEVER know what it feels like to love and feel love. This is his curse. herpes is not just a sickness of the body. sometimes it is a sickness of the mind as well as the heart. I could have decided to do the same as you guys. keep infecting. but do you know what is worse than herpes? being sick selfish and evil like you guys. I can live with herpes I can not live with being an asshole who destroys lives. have fun being alone forever looser.

[Guest Anonymous]

just to let you know it is possible for people to sue you if you knowingly give herpes to them. also i know this scum bag guy just like you who does the same thing and the word does get out. all the girls in my scence who know him know he has it and has given it to others. We make a point of telling as many people as we can that he has herpes. If he wont have the decency to tell the truth we will tell it for him. No one will touch this guy now and he has acctually moved across the country.

[Guest Anonymous]

Vern wrote:

"the bitch that gave it to me didnt tell me she had it, so why should i tell anyone. "

I suppose you were a virgin or you had been tested immediately before having sex with the person who you claim gave it to you! The truth is one can rarely say where it originated from.

Guest wrote:

"We make a point of telling as many people as we can that he has herpes."

And you wonder why some people would never tell! You running around telling everyone makes you every bit as bad a person as he is!

I just want to say that each and every one of us has a responsibility to protect ourselves. If you have herpes you should protect those you are with from you, and yourself from them. You don't know what someone else has or maybe just what someone they have had sex with had!

Always use protection!

[Guest Anonymous]

this is from the guest who wrote the earlier post about the guy with herpes. first I know he gave it to several girls. he also was dating a friend of mine and cheated on her and she contracted gonoreha and clamidia which she didn't know she had until it gave her pid and basically destroyed her uterus. this guy is completly irresponsible and if he cant look out for the health of the girls hes intimate with maybe someone else should. these girls go into these relationships looking for love and this guy just wants to have an orgasm. he didnt care about those girls whose life he was ruining. I know of many other people who also have this and I would never tell a soul. I don't tell about people for fun or to hurt I want to protect unsuspecting girls. I wish the word had been out about the guy who gave this to me. Im sure there are many girls out there who he has given this to. there is so much shame associated with this girls do not talk about it. there are alot of men out there who dont give a shit who they hurt and even guys who get off on infecting others like the guy who started this post. has anyone else heard that if a girl contracts herpes while pregnant her child could die or be born with brain damage? There are serious repercussions to not telling. I hate to sound like a bitchy feminist but I'm so sick of the abuse woman take from men and a guy intentionally infecting woman is a form of sexual abuse to me. Now don't think I hate all men, just dishonest disrespectful ones that use woman. I think girls need to speak up more about this silent trajedy. there is no voice for people with herpes, just here on the web. we are soposed to carry this shame alone. I'm angry about what a bad guy did to me and if I can prvent it from hapening to someone else I will. I always tell my partners so they have a choice. Most of us didn't and thats why were here.

[christi]

Time for some reflection.

Spend some time having a good hard look at yourself in the mirror, Vern! Ask yourself truly, do you like what you see?? Be honest, really honest, look beyond the external, do you like what you see?

Think about it and should, upon some 'self reflection' you decide to turn over a new leaf there are plenty of people here who will support you.

We are all responsible for our own actions, you decided to have sex with the girl who supposedly shared her herpes with you and for that you are responsible, any person who has ever had sex is at some risk of having contracted herpes because.... how are you supposed to be 100% sure that they've been honest about their sexual history?? She may not have known she even had it. One in five people carry the virus so if you've had sex with more than five people just think about the odds, if it wasn't her it could have been someone else....or several people in your sexual past!

Two (or twenty) wrongs don't make a right. One day your behaviour might just turn around and 'bite you on the bum....ahem!' excuse the pun!

HURTING OTHERS WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY. IT WILL MAKE YOU BITTER TWISTED AND CYNICAL.....eventually it will show on your face. Life is precious and look at what you are doing to it. Guess what, right now, from what you've said, you come across as a CREEP!!! BUT the fact that people are responding to your post shows that we care, total strangers but we care about the fact that you are HURTING OTHERS and also yourself..... please, have a think about that too, as you study your face intently in the mirror!

Christi.

[Guest Anonymous]

Vern I will say a prayer for you! Better yet a may even go to the church and light a candle. A little reminder....what goes around...comes around and you may think that the damage has already been done, but something really bad could happen from you being so careless.

hope

[Aloemen]

don't even waste your time with this one