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Here is my story, last july i noticed 2 lil bumps on the shaft of my penis right under the head of it, and i didnt think much of it because it looked like pimples , so around October, I saw my family doctor and there was bout 3 on me at the time and he told me me it was pimples, so I had to go to the urologist a few weeks later for something else and he told me they could either e pimples or warts and he said if they still are on me in 6 mts come back and he'll take care of it so its been about 6 mts now since that visit and I now have 8 on me..so i went to my doc last mth and he told me now they're warts and they could be an std, genital warts which i couldn't figure out how since I've been with the same girl for 2 yrs in July. So I told her about it, and she went and got herself tested at the ER that night and the doc said she was totally clean and she didn't have anything, she wasn't even a carrier of it. I've done some reading on genital warts and it says if you have it you should see signs of it within 3 mts of contact and as i said i've been dating her for 3 mts and right after we started dating, i went and got myself tested and i was clean and she did the same and she was clean back then also. I used to have alot of warts on me on my hands when i was in high school i'm 23 now and i had to get em removed like 3 seperate times, but i never had em on my pen is before, and i figured if they were normal warts and not the std kind they'd sread on me again, but they haven't, these have been on my since last july, but i have no std-like symptoms that would lead me to believe that they are the std genital warts, other then they've gone from like 2 to 8 since last july.

My q is can you get normal warts on your penis like i had on my hands years ago and they not be and std? What does it sound like i might have? i dont go back to the urologist for like 3 more weeks and the worry of this is really getting to me so i dont know if i should go back to the ER or not, but if i had the std genital warts my gf would've had em too since we've been together for 2 yrs now, we would've just been passing it back and forth, but she's totally clean so i don't know what this could be. Any help and or advice is much appricated, thanks.

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It sounds like HPV - I can't even begin to tell you what I don't know about it - I'm still learning - I've posted elseewhere what I know - I'll find the link for you. You could have got the virus anytime - so many people have it and don't know. Women don't know because sometimes the warts are so small and internal that you can't see them. I doubt you got this knowingly. I'm amazed that they tested your gf - I couldn't be tested.... hhmmm... annyway - condoms condoms - you are more contageous with warts present - you will need to have them removed - laser - cryo (freezing) or surgical - I was told it's painful but doable - prepare yourself - you will be fine OK?. I'm no expert on this whatsoever... limited knowledge - go to gotHPV.com they have good links for info.

Good luck.

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