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I recently noticed one very small red bump on the tip of my penis. Within the next couple days, I got a couple small dry spots on my face and 2 more little dry spots on my penis...they hever had any fluid or anything, just sort of flaked off a little and are now just a little tender (I had them scraped for a herpes culture this morning). My doctor said it's most likely not herpes, but I have a feeling he was trying to calm my nerves. I haven't had any flu like symptoms and I recently had a rough handjob that I'm thinking MIGHT have caused the dry spots...but this one red bump came up BEFORE that and (a week ago) and although it is getting better, it is not full gone. Any insight would really help me. I am scared to death. Thank you for your time.

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In my experience - sores evolve so quickly they wouldn't stay a "bump" for very long. But thats just me.

Wednesday morning I woke after having a "prickly" feeling the night before in the area where I get outbreaks - to 5 or 6 tiny spots - blisters - all clustered together. By the afternoon they had joined together into two "lines" as if they had joined together. red swolen skin in the area, tender to the touch - lower back pain and abdominal pain - for me - it was lik emenstral cramps and back pain (I would not expect you to get that - but for women reading this..) Thursday the blisters were solifying, no more clear fluid - mine don't usually open - I'm very careful not to touch & keep dry & clean.. this am - the area is still sore and swollen, but now the blisters are just red raised spots, healing.

My point - yours doesn't sound classic... I'm sure you will be fine. So many people come here and say they have a bump on their penis after "rough handling" and we never find out what it is - only it's usually not HSV.

I hope you let us know what the test says. Good luck - I'll bet good money it's negative.

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Thank you for your reply. What scares me is that although everything is looking like its healing, I still have some very faint red spots - I wouldnt call them blisters though, they don't hurt or anything and that one bump on the very tip. Every little itch and microscopic bump all over my body is killing me now - this is the most nerve-wracking thing ever.

I will most definitely post my results as soon as I hear something. Thanks again and good luck with everything.

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Well, its been over a week now and I thought things were getting better, but I just woke up, ran to the bathroom and had a look...One of the little red spots that I thought was healing had a very small white line over it which in turn makes it a blister i guess...I looked at another one of the red spots, and it had a very faint white thing on top too...Still haven't felt any pain over the course of this whole thing...I have no idea what I'm going to do now...but I'm still waiting to hear back on my test results.

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yeah - that's not sounding too good - I'd get into the doc so they can look & swab it if you haven't had them swabbed already. COuld still just be pimples - but I'd want to know - the red spots do linger for a while - and reoccurences in the same location is common. Sorry to say - don't freak out until you ear from the doc.

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Yeah, actually i did get a swab test done last Thursday so I'm still waiting on the results from that. What's so weird is that I only have one bump with a dark center on the tip of my penis and a couple red, irritated spots on the side...turns out the white things must have been something else...they came right off in the shower. I'll keep you updated... :cry:

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What has been driving me really crazy is trying to figure out what this could be if it's NOT herpes...the girl I last slept with was having some sort of yeast infection (she didn't outright say that, but thats what it sounded like to me) so I wonder if that's what it could be...

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I know men can also get yeast infections, but it would be burning like crazy - and I don't even want to tell you in fear I may scare you.. but one of the many possible prodomes is a "yeasty" feeling for women. To tell you the truth I have been asking people how "normal" this is - you get that way as a woman ovulates sometimes - it's just so complicated.... If it is HSV you can thak God it's so mild - but I still say it may just be irritation.... I feel for you - this is the hardest part - not knowing...

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It really is - I call twice a day to see if my results are in, but so far, no luck. I have asked the only 2 girls that I've slept with if theyve been tested and both said they have been tested recently and are clean, so hopefully they are telling the truth. I appreciate you taking the time to give me something to read while I wait this out. You really do a lot of good for a lot of people. I'll keep you updated.

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I have something similar to you (you can see my post). I "dry humped" with a girl last Friday night, and then the tip of my penis got tender and I developed 2 little red spots, which are still there. I went to the urologist today, and he said it didn't look like HSV and gave me a coristeroid cream for it. I'm with you as far as, if it isn't HSV, then what is it, and why is it still tender? Plus, it seems like some people don't have the "classic" symptoms. There wasn't anything for him to swab, so I'm getting blood tested for both strains. I should know somthing tomorrow, but if it is negative, is it a false negative? This is so frustrating.

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I don't know why you didn't get results yet - I went to the doc on the 5th, called today and they had the hsv results - funny, the nurse was so careful, and changed her whole demeanor when she told me that I was "positive for herpes type 2" I said "yeah, I know, I wand the HPV results... then thought about it and said "negative for type 1 right?" boy, you just don't know.... but that was 10 days - when did you go? I thought it was longer for you.

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Dumb - let us know as soon as you find out. I hope everything goes well.

Lasmom - wow, I dont know if I could make it 10 days without knowing!

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Hey, I'm Dumb. Figured I might as well get a log in name. The cortisosteroid cream seems to be helping, but I can't really be sure... The tenderness has faded in and out from the beginning. Unfortunately, I work offshore, and will be gone for 14 days. I will only have access to work internet, which is monitored, so there is no way I am going to use it to come here. It will be hell not being able to visit this site for support.

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Damn, that's too bad...it's funny though...I'm having the same issue with the tenderness fading in and out - this is the weirdest thing ever.

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Yeah, I'd really like to hear what your results are and let you know what mine are. Do you have any other symptoms? The glands in my groin are not swollen, but the ones in my neck are. That could be from the screaming at myself I did for about 5 straight days. I'm done with that business, but now I don't know what caused the swelling. I am tired and haven't been too hungry, but I think most of that can be attributed to the incredible stress I've been putting myself under. No headaches or muscle aches either.

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Dumb - let us know as soon as you find out. I hope everything goes well.

Lasmom - wow, I dont know if I could make it 10 days without knowing!

The HPV testing won't be back until next Monday - earliest - typical for a PAP - that will be 17 days - minimum, AND it may not tell me the exact strain I have (or do not have) So, there you go. But I am negative for everything else - HSV 1, gonorhea (sp?), syphillis, HIV - and whatever else they tested me for.... so things are looking up, right? 1 out of 6 or so aint bad.... :roll:

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Lasmom- Glad to hear that! I hope your HPV test comes back negative!

As for me, I am nothing but rubber right now. I called to see if my results were in and they were :? ! My heart jumped into my throat and then I heard the woman say that it was negative! What a relief. Now if I could figure out what the hell else this could be, I'd be set. Thanks so much for helping me through this and I wish you the best of luck. This experience was JUST the wakeup call that I needed!

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My heart jumped into my throat and then I heard the woman say that it was negative!
The only time "negative" is good! Happy for you!

This experience was JUST the wakeup call that I needed!
I hear you - you should have that posted on the cover of every newspaper in the world - everyone could benefit by that - spread the word - not the virus. (oooh - good slogan!)

Best wishes for a healthy future! Now go buy a shit load of condoms!!!

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Haha, yeah...I've told a couple of my closest friends about what might be going on with me and they were clueless (sort of like I was a week ago). I really gave them a different perspective on things with all the information I've been reading lately. This was most definitely a blessing in disguise. As far as the condoms, you read my mind - I was planning on stopping at Walgreens after work to load up :lol: . Thanks again!

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Congrats to both of you! I haven't heard anything yet and am freaking out. Couldn't keep away, so hopefully no one is monitoring my internet use today. Please keep posting here if you learn anything more about what you have, since it sounds similar to me. So did you have any other symptoms? I am so scared right now.

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Dumb- Your condition sounds almost identical to mine (I'm the guest who got the negative results today). My only symptoms were a couple red raw spots, a small bump on the tip of my penis, and tenderness. I was just as nervous as you are, but I'm betting that since we seem to be in the same boat that you'll be fine. Let us know what happens.

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Couldn't stay away, ha ha. Well, Now I've got a canker sore where my tongue meet the bottom of my mouth. At least I hope that is what it is. I guess if it is oral herpes there will be more????

Oddly, the lotrizone cream seems to be helping the other area, as it has almost no tenderness anymore. Lortizone would make things worse if it was herpes, right? This sucks that I can't go to a dr.

If anyone has any thoughts, please share! This is my only source of info right now. Seems to be too much of a coincidence to have both problems right now.............

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  • 2 weeks later...

Guest, you still around? I got the IgM blood test, unfortunately, and am still offshore, so I can't get back in until Tuesday to get blood drawn again. Then I'll have another week of waiting. At least the IgM test was negative, but it doesn't rule out an older infection.

If I've read right, you only got a swab test? If so, you should probably get verified with a blood test for IgG antibodies. Apparantly the swab tests can give false negatives. Sorry if this puts a damper on you. Good luck and let me know how it goes!

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I was told that a swab test of an active sore is the most accurate... but I suppose if you have hsv elsewhere, and the sore is unrelated... a blood test would be a good idea as well.

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From what I have read, a positive swab means you definitely have it. But apparently the virus is fragile outside the body (ironic huh) and so you can get false negatives if it dies before it can be cultured.

I got blood drawn today for an IgG test, so fingers crossed for the next week. I am so tired.

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