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My 40th Birthday

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herpesharmony

Thanks to Herpes-Coldsores.com for sending me an email to wish me a Happy Birthday. I'll be 40 tomorrow,on Christmas Eve. I have no plans and it really sucks. My whole life sucks.

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HC-Support-Team
I have no plans and it really sucks. My whole life sucks.

Awww, don't think like that! If you're alive and have internet access you are already two steps ahead ;)

What's troubling you?

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Nemonamedjoe

Happy birthday where you live?

send me your phone number we can talk for a bit for your birthday!!

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herpesharmony

Thanks, but its hopeless.

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Shayna

Happy Birthday!!!!

Your 40's will be great!

Give yourself a break and enjoy ;)

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curecomingverysoon

Why is it hopeless? Feel free to vent, we're here to hear it.

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herpesharmony

Its hopeless because of herpes and being on disability for a back injury.

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Nemonamedjoe

life is a journey and we only get to live once right?

i would really like to talk to ya i got nothing going on christmas eve so if ya wanna talk message me your number

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herpesharmony
life is a journey and we only get to live once right?

i would really like to talk to ya i got nothing going on christmas eve so if ya wanna talk message me your number

Hi Joe! I live in St. Joseph.

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anna99

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HH!!! Michigan here, too. Hugs, Anna

PS: At the risk of sounding profane how 'bout a whole lot more snowing and blowing for a b-day present from mother nature :)

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herpesharmony
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HH!!! Michigan here, too. Hugs, Anna

PS: At the risk of sounding profane how 'bout a whole lot more snowing and blowing for a b-day present from mother nature :)

Thank you...

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Nemonamedjoe

Well sorry i cant travel that far!! i dont have that much money lol!!

Whats your phone number?

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speaktru

Happy Birthday!! I hope it gets better... dont give up. Hang in there.

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herpesharmony
Happy Birthday!! I hope it gets better... dont give up. Hang in there.

Thank you! I'm thinking about what I'm going to do today. What would you do by yourself on your Birthday?

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speaktru
Thank you! I'm thinking about what I'm going to do today. What would you do by yourself on your Birthday?

well... i went to a karaoke bar for the first time and sang and sang and sang all my frustrations away...it was very therapeutic! you should try it.

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herpesharmony
well... i went to a karaoke bar for the first time and sang and sang and sang all my frustrations away...it was very therapeutic! you should try it.

I would clear out the bar. I can't sing for anything.

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curecomingverysoon

Happy birthday, HH! You certainly have a lot of snow for your birthday this year.

If I were you, I'd probably go get some really good food that's bad for me and rent a couple of Christmas or action movies and just relax in front of the TV and get away from my own worries.

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herpesharmony
Happy birthday, HH! You certainly have a lot of snow for your birthday this year.

If I were you, I'd probably go get some really good food that's bad for me and rent a couple of Christmas or action movies and just relax in front of the TV and get away from my own worries.

I thought about doing that but I might want to go somewhere.

Hmmm...curecomingverysoon",is there really a cure coming soon? I think scientist have the technology for a cure there is a cure and a vaccine. What do you think?

I don't get outbreaks anymore but it would be GREAT to have a cure because of the stigma.

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Nemonamedjoe

Happy birth day to youuuuuuu!

Happy birthday to youuuuuuuuuuu!

Happy birthday dear double hh!!!!

Happy birthday toooooooooooooooooo'

(vocals sounding super sweet) youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

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curecomingverysoon

Well, my determination that a cure (or vaccine -- not transmitting to someone else would be as good as a vaccine for me...) is really what gets me through the day, particularly when I'm by myself. I've got a quite an obsessive streak in me so this whole thing really consumes me... I'm 24, I've had four partners, only one without protection and that fourth one wouldn't use a condom... and so I sit here on Christmas Eve day. I know the risk with condoms and suppressive therapy is 1% from female to male (probably more in the range of 2-3%, considering how much sex I like(d)) to have) but I can't wrap my mind around even the possibility of transmitting this burden to someone else...

I know that the cure is out there or on its way... by the time I'm 30, I need this to be a thing of the past. I think that it will have permanently shaped the person that I am though, and for that, I hope to one day be grateful.

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herpesharmony

I think the cure is out there too. I think the cure already exist.

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herpesharmony
Happy birth day to youuuuuuu!

Happy birthday to youuuuuuuuuuu!

Happy birthday dear double hh!!!!

Happy birthday toooooooooooooooooo'

(vocals sounding super sweet) youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

That sounded good,thanks!

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gotitsowhat

Happy 40th

What I wouldn't give to be 40 again! Look at it this way--no matter what, I will always be older than you are!

Feel free to PM me and, if you want to chat with an old chick on Christmas, I will be home and recovering from a back injury (temporary, I hope). I had to cancel out on the Christmas party to which I was invited.

Things can always be worse, right? And where there's life, there's hope. If nothing else, I believe we can all look forward to the herpes vaccine one of these days (or years) which will make the social stigma surrounding herpes obsolete. And there should be some better meds fairly soon as well.

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herpesharmony

Whats the point? I'm alone,have herpes and on disability. Without love I have nothing.

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