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i just lost my virginity and after that i was diagnosed with herpes ,a month ago,it was with a guy named jay and he was smart and used protection...Well along came our friend JD and he just joined in not telling me anything i couldnt say anything and Jd Never told anyone that he had herpes! my friend slept with him 2 weeks b4 me and she's only 13 and she got it! I just wanna know if their is hope for me in relationships with guys in the future? i mean i really would love to have that and a kid yah know! i got plenty of my friends backing me up on this but JD keeps telling people that he doesnt have herpes and that he would never fuck a 13 year old! it pissed me off when i heard that!! But i just really wanna know if the women in here that have herpes was it easy to find s guy that loved you even though you have this disease? Did They give themselves to you..or were they kinda ify about the whole thing? I just wanna know if there is hope for me to get married and have kids i guess!!

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I'm sorry to hear that you got it, especially only being 15. My advice to you, is that yes, you will find someone who will love you someday and yes, you will be able to have children. Women with herpes can have a normal pregnancy. They can also have a normal delivery if they aren't shedding the virus at the time of delivery. So don't worry about that, especially since you are still so young! And about guys in the future... you will find someone who will still want you. I can't promise that they all will be understanding and accepting, but you shouldn't beat yourself up if you do get that kind of response. You're not ruined, and it doesn't make you a bad person. Anyways, I think now, having herpes myself, that if a guy can't accept you with herpes, then they aren't the kind of guy who deserves your love. In a way, it sort of weeds out the bad guys early on and saves later heartache. Just stay positive, and don't dwell on "what could have been."

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