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Hello All!

Ok to make a long story short....I was engaged about 2 and half years ago then we broke it off. We didn't really talk or see each other during those 2 and half years... Well recently we have started to talk again. This time we are going to take things very slowly and see where things end up with us. I have no idea whether things will work out with us or not. My question is this.. Should I tell him about my H now or wait until I know it's going to work out . This isn't some random guy . We were engaged to be married! I'm so afriad to tell him . I have heard that you have to be comfortable with H before you can expect someone else to be. I'm still not yet. Will there ever be a day where I wake up and H isn't the first thing on my mind? I really want to tell him b/c I feel this is getting in the way of my feelings for him. I have had H for about a month now and this will be the first time I would have to have this "talk" with someone. Please help!! Any suggestions ????

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Any advice will really help!! I'm about to go crazy thinking about this. I find myself having a good time with him then all of a sudden H pops in my head and I get all depressed !! I don't know what to do .PLEASE HELP ANYONE!!!! :?

BTW.. reading all the posts on this board help me out a little in dealing with this .. thanks for sharing all the stories everyone!

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Southernbelle, don't just "read" these stories, go over them and let them "sink in" a bit ,if you know what I mean. Stop and smell the roses so to speak, this also goes for you too ..., well you know who you are! :wink:

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Thanks Friend of H girl! Every story, experience, advice, etc., I read helps! But I'm still a little new to it all. And I can't quit thinking about the fucker (excuse my language-but he really was!) that gave this to me. I really belive he knew he had it and didn't tell me, which really really makes me angry!

So what do I do about telling my ex (the one I was surposed to marry!)?????

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