And what do you disagree with Discordant? Have I ever said anywhere that one shouldn't disclose? Or did I say that one should disclose on the first meeting or date?
Or you disagree because my advice doesn't agree with your mathematical formula? Love, honesty and trust don't run on maths, nor does the heart. And using a calendar to either disclose or withhold information isn't living - it's torture. Maybe not for you who knows the secret formula but it is for everyone else.
Life isn't about maths - life is about living. And it's about living as healthily and peacefully as possible... why hold on to something that hurts your heart and your head because it isn't the right day?
Trust me, at my age I've learnt to choose your battles. There are far, far, far worse conditions to deal with than herpes. I deal with several of them on a daily basis and herpes is a walk in the park sometimes!
It's so crazy to me the negativity that I have received from admin's in Facebook groups and other people in Facebook groups on the subject of my personal story and personal experience about the vaccine. So far I have been removed from three groups and the personal attacks and arguments are quite ignorant. Suffice it to say, that when people do not understand something, they immediately Poopoo it. Smh
Stupid scammer. Don't waste your time you guys all do exactly the same thing you put an email address in we know it's scam so go away. You are like leeches who prey on people who are struggling and it's pretty damn pathetic
I think it's nice of you to want to apologize now and I agree what is the motive. In the last year have you actually felt bad for doing what you did or is it only now that you have herpes that you realise that you did the wrong thing. I guess if someone did that to me and then came back and apologized a year later I would wonder whether they are only doing it to make themselves feel better. but that's just me.
The buttocks area is considered genital so those symptoms would be associated with the virus being active. People do get itching when the virus is active ie the term shedding. I'm not sure if you're aware of that. Some people say aloe vera gel helps with the itching. It could be the stress or else is just this virus and it's unpredictable nature. People that I am aware of sometimes get one or two outbreaks a year so you're doing pretty well
I know this is older but You dodged a needy whining bullet. Poor him. What a selfish thing to say, I guess you hurt his feelings when he could not have everything his way. This virus forces us to live up to real life and all its bullshit. We got unlucky enough to get a virus we must deal with for the rest of our lives. Imagine how lucky those others are who get things that shorten their lives so they don't have to deal with things.
I waited months, with normal heavy petting dates, before I disclosed. I wanted to make sure they were who I believed them to be and that takes time.
I believe this is the key to my successful disclosures. I gave them the necessary info, not the scary stuff, regarding what I do for me and what I would do for them to keep them safe.
It sounds like you are genuinely concerned about her health and welfare so why not start with an anonymous letter since they are not aware you know. That way she has the heads up and your conscience is clear. Once she is out of the way you can sort out your relationship with the man you want to raise healthy happy mindful children with.
Keep the note simple and concise, that way it will be easy to remember when you need to write one to the next woman he cheats on you with.
You deserve to be treated better and this virus is not going to get in the way of the life you want with a decent person. As you can see lots of decent people get this virus and lots of decent people that do not have the virus love others enough to deal with it.
My first after HSV cheated on me, without my knowledge, until he gave me a second STI. I foolishly assumed he respected my need for optimum health and respected what I did for him. He loved me so much, he must of had too much love so he spread it around.
Good Luck with your catch. I threw mine back into the cesspool.