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Acceptance Debate (moved from Success forum)

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Searchingforacure
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I'm really happy for you. It really is a good feeling when you find people who are willing to accept you either way. People who research and get informed instead of being ignorant about the whole situation.

Keep the good news coming. Too many people worry about all the negative, and it's not because they have nothing positive in their lives, but because they're too busy being pessimists to notice the rest.

It is not about being pessimistic. It is about being realistic. The realistic part is that many people are not accepting of this illness because of the stigma.

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JBnATL

Searching, how many people have rejected you because of herpes?

I have NEVER been rejected because of this, and I think savedyetlost's experience is the norm, not the exception.

Good luck with this relationship. Keep us updated!

JB

It is not about being pessimistic. It is about being realistic. The realistic part is that many people are not accepting of this illness because of the stigma.

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Searchingforacure
I have NEVER been rejected because of this, and I think savedyetlost's experience is the norm, not the exception.

Good luck with this relationship. Keep us updated!

JB

JB,

Let's face it...

There are cultures that maybe more accepting to this than others....

My race and culture considers this like the plague...

It is not the norm...it is YOUR norm!

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JBnATL

Quit playing the race card

JB,

Let's face it...

There are cultures that maybe more accepting to this than others....

My race and culture considers this like the plague...

It is not the norm...it is YOUR norm!

This virus is rejected by all cultures and races. Just because you have decided to let this virus ruin your life does not mean others want to be dragged down with you.

I have had this virus many years and have been on many h chat sites and what Saved has found is the norm.

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Searchingforacure
This virus is rejected by all cultures and races. Just because you have decided to let this virus ruin your life does not mean others want to be dragged down with you.

I have had this virus many years and have been on many h chat sites and what Saved has found is the norm.

JB,

It is not the norm, we will never agree on this!

I am not saying others want this virus to ruin their life...

Until you walk in MY shoes, you will never understand! Bottom LINE!

Herpes is accepted by some cultures more than others and I will stand by that!

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JBnATL

you have only had this 7 months, so how can you know the norm?

I have had this many years and have met HUNDREDS of people with this.

So I think I am more qualified in what the norm is.

Take your pity party some where else.

JB,

It is not the norm, we will never agree on this!

I am not saying others want this virus to ruin their life...

Until you walk in MY shoes, you will never understand! Bottom LINE!

Herpes is accepted by some cultures more than others and I will stand by that!

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Searchingforacure
I have had this many years and have met HUNDREDS of people with this.

So I think I am more qualified in what the norm is.

Take your pity party some where else.

JB,

JB your norm...and my norm will never be the same!

This is not a pity party this is me expressing my views...

If you do not like it too fuckin bad!

Man I wish I could meet you in person....

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JB,

JB your norm...and my norm will never be the same!

This is not a pity party this is me expressing my views...

If you do not like it too fuckin bad!

Man I wish I could meet you in person....

People come here for POSITIVE support. And every post that I see that you attempt to bring down someone to your depressed state I will respond to.

Good luck Saved!

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Searchingforacure
People come here for POSITIVE support. And every post that I see that you attempt to bring down someone to your depressed state I will respond to.

Good luck Saved!

It is NOT to bring them down... it is my opnion!

You see it whatever fuckin way you want to...

My first post here was stating the difference between being a realist and a pessemist! Again read!

JB you are not the end all say all with herpes...let people speak for themselves! Oh yes btw if you continue to misinterpret my posts, then you will continue to get a response from me!

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chooseyourbattles

People are actually, on the whole, less accepting than I would have expected them to be.

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Searchingforacure
People are actually, on the whole, less accepting than I would have expected them to be.

Glad you said this...

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vtamnl
Glad you said this...

Amazing how you can't articulate your "opinion" without cursing... Show's you are very good at expressing your views.

Kudos.

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JBnATL
Amazing how you can't articulate your "opinion" without cursing... Show's you are very good at expressing your views.

Kudos.

Agreed vtamnl

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