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I was diagnosed with hsv-2 2 months ago and I swear I feel like one of the stupidest people on the planet!! The person I contracted from had no signs so he was unaware until the symptoms started occuring for me. I feel like I will never be in a relationship with anyone because no one wants to deal with this(not even th person I contracted from). It is painful and I feel like I have no where to turn. Aside from talking to the person I contracted this from, I have spoken to no-one................I feel so alone!!!!

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Well then join the crowd of stupid people! Just kidding!

We aren't stupid, just unlucky. There isn't a way to tell if someone has this unless there is an obvious outbreak. If you saw a bunch of sores on their genitals and still had sex with someone, then yeah, that's pretty stupid. Otherwise, unless you do a blood test, you wouldn't know if they don't tell you. And even then, a blood test would only tell that they didn't have it like 3 months ago, since it takes that long for antibodies to show up in the blood after the virus gets into your body. They may not have known. It happens. And you definitely are not alone! Read the posts on here. Everyone is going through the same feelings, especially when you are first diagnosed. Post questions on here. Everyone is really nice and helpful. Read the info on the right side of the page. Very informative.

You found the right place for support though!

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I hope talking to people on here and hearing what they have to say really helps u feel that ur not alone. I just joined a few days ago and already i feel so much better about my situation, dont get me wrong it is still hard to deal with but I found this site helps me. I know what ur going through i just contracted the virus a month ago and the asshole who gave it to me is still in denial about having it or even spreading it. we just have to take things day by day and not let it completly control our lives. Good luck to u.

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Try a Lysine supplement for cold sores

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    • Trace67
      It doesnt really mean much yet. They still dont know if the herpes is taking advantage of a diseased brain or causing the disease. Furthermore, there is evidence that Alzheimer's might be caused by oral spirochete disease and even Lyme. Many of you could have oral Spirochetes but the Lyme and is less likely. https://globallymealliance.org/pathogen-cause-alzheimers-disease/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5008232/ https://newsblog.drexel.edu/2016/02/10/do-infections-cause-alzheimers-disease/   Of course it could be both! Maybe having hsv-1 and oral spirochetes quadruples the risk.  In my opinion the spirochete theory sounds more likely and its hard to dismiss neurosurgeons and caretakers getting Alzheimers from a disease that was previously thought to be non contagious. I'd worry more about Spirochetes.  
    • Rgs77
      Did ldn work.
    • honkschonks
      I wonder if people in the military are tested for hsv, because the general public isn’t. You have to specifically ask for it and many doctors don’t even see the point because it’s “so common”. It’s very possible he has it and has no symptoms or very mild random symptoms. Sorry to hear what you’re dealing with. It seems like women’s symptoms are worse than men’s.
    • WilsoInAus
      No that’s not the issue at all. The absolute vast majority of nerve pain is not caused by herpes. Hence it cannot be used to reverse engineer a diagnosis of herpes. That is exceptinally dangerous and we must do all we can encourage proper diagnosis.
    • ill47
      Do you have an APOE4 gene? I do. I also have HSV-2, which so far hasn't been linked to dementia. Itzhaki previously found that cold sores occur more frequently in those who carry a gene variant that confers increased risk of Alzheimer’s called APOE-ε4. "Our theory is that in APOE-ε4 carriers, reactivation is more frequent or more harmful in HSV1-infected brain cells, which as a result accumulate damage that culminates in development of Alzheimer's," she said.

      So basically, if you carry the APOE4 gene and have oral HSV-1, you chances of dementia could be quite high. But if you have APOE4, your chances of dementia were higher already. Look, 80% of the population has HSV-1. 80% of the population does not get dementia. You also seem to skip over the fact that antiviral treatment can reduce the increased chances of dementia to almost nothing. "The striking results include evidence that the risk of senile dementia is much greater in those who are infected with HSV, and that anti-herpes antiviral treatment causes a dramatic decrease in number of those subjects severely affected by HSV1 who later develop dementia," Itzhaki said. The data from Taiwan only applies to the rare severe HSV1 or VZV infections. The next step will be to study dementia rates amongst people with mild HSV1 infections, including herpes labialis or mild genital herpes. "Considering that over 150 publications strongly support an HSV1 role in Alzheimer's, these Taiwan findings greatly justify usage of antiherpes antivirals - which are safe and well-tolerated - to treat Alzheimer's disease,” Itzhaki said."They also incentivize development of an HSV1 vaccine, which would likely be the most effective treatment." I think it behooves you to do your research and actually read the articles you are posting before pulling the alarm and trying to scare people. 

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