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before you knew you had herpes 1 or 2 have any one ever asked about herpes before getting intimate with partner

just wanted to know

me personally i really didnt know anything about it

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Now18

I voted yes. I asked him but did not make him get tested. Worthless I know. Because if he had something, knew, and felt the need to inform me than he would have just told me upfront without me asking. Although he was not the most honest person, so I'm sure if I did make him get tested and he tested positive for it he would have never told me.

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disislife
I voted yes. I asked him but did not make him get tested. Worthless I know. Because if he had something, knew, and felt the need to inform me than he would have just told me upfront without me asking. Although he was not the most honest person, so I'm sure if I did make him get tested and he tested positive for it he would have never told me.

well you are right about that because you ask dont mean they will tell the truth or ever got tested for herpes

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clover

Nope. I was like many people...if they didn't bring it up then I would assume they didn't have anything. It's a dumb move but it seems to be the norm. :???:

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chooseyourbattles

I used to ask them about their STD status, not about herpes in particular. I was far more concerned about HIV. Before I got herpes, I remember thinking that it wasn't that big of a deal.

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