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smithconfused

I'm really pissed off right now. I never appreciated uninvited guests!!!!

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smithconfused

I can't freakin sleep! Aunt Flow just left. She always come with a notice and informs me when she's leaving. However, this new "guest" just pops up whenever "it" feels like it and I am getting tired of it. No warning, no prodome symtpms....H just appeared. Now, I can't sleep because of the fun H is having down there. I am really disturbed right now. This is driving me insane!!!!!! I want to be normal again. 3 months and still counting.

Well H, you are never welcome. But, if you decide to come over, please notify me somehow! I have rules at my house. If you're here to stay....stay quietly and don't disturb my darn sleep!

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PetiteGeekGirl

Hey smithconfused,

Sorry to hear about your "uninvited guest." My first outbreak was terrible when it came to sleeping... my "guest" would keep me most of the night from the terrible pain. If I would roll over in the middle of the night, my nerves would scream out in pain and I would wake up sobbing from the shock.

I am hoping things are better for you now? Do feel better.

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