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scared22

Hi everyone,

I'm new to this site and looking for some advice. I have genital HSV 1. I was in a relationship for 2 years with someone and suddenly had a severe problem down south about 4 months ago. I went to the doctor and they told me they suspected herpes. My blood test came back negative but culture was positve. I went back this last week to get my blood tested again and it came back positve. I broke up with the guy I was with, which has now put me in a new predictament. Not only because I have herpes but because the guy I was with was my first. I haven't been in the dating world before, and now I'm entering it with this.:madd: I'm scared and worried. I'm only 22 and I don't know much about this myself much less to try to inform a new partner that already scared when they hear the words.

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justmyself

There are many people your age who are dealing with this themselves. There are some good online dating sites for H+ people too, positivesingles.com and mpwh.net. But you don't have to limit yourself to dating people who already have herpes either. Read all you can on this virus, but also beware as there is a lot of false information out there on herpes too. There is a lot of good information on the right side of this website. The more you learn about it, the easier it will be for your to deal with it and be able to tell a future potential partner about it.

After you have made two posts to this forum, you can go to the chat room and there are many people on there that can help too! Hope to chat with you on there soon!

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WarriorKing
I'm scared and worried. I'm only 22 and I don't know much about this myself much less to try to inform a new partner that already scared when they hear the words.

First step. Learn about yourself. Learn how H is going to affect you and not affect you. Learn about H itself.

You can stress yourself out with the messages in your mind going round and round and round and round and so on, about what if and what will they think, so try to quiet that part of your mind down for now while you take your first step.

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