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Saw an ex last night...

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catiesmom

I feel like telling this story over and over for some reason, but i don't have anywhere else to tell it. Maybe some of you will appreciate this.

The first guy i dated after finding out i had H was this cute, random chance meeting. He was really nice and we got along well, but he had just gotten out of a relationship and didn't want anything serious, and i've got a 5 year old and a 10-year plan and i wasn't into casual or booty calls. He was my first ever "talk" and he took it really well. Anyway, things fizzled out cause he decided it was more fun to go drinking and stand me up than actually talk to me. Whatevs.

I saw him last night at a book store. Actually, my daughter saw him first. I was talking to the sales guy and she kept pulling on me. Finally i turned around to see what she needed, and there he was. I know i looked like crap, with my hair all messy and bags under my eyes, but he was in the SAME work clothes he wore 2 years ago. He'd changed his hair, i don't know if it was shorter or longer, but he still had those INCREDIBLE blue eyes. They should really be immortalized in a movie somewhere (although he'd never show up to filming!).

We chatted, i asked about his nieces, blah blah blah. Then he caught sight of my wedding band, and didn't even finish his goodbye sentence before his back was turned to me and he was walking away! Not that i expect less of him, but it actually kinda made me feel good - like i said "See what you missed?" without saying anything or even meaning to. No matter what problems I may have had, his were bigger and caused him to miss out on a fabulous thing. So, his loss! :)

I just had to share. Thanks!

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Shayna

Sweet, Catiesmom!!! Ooooh...I just love it when that happens!! I don't like to think of myself as a vindictive person...but there's a different set of rules when it comes to running into our ex's!! hahah

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Honor

Nice story.

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chooseyourbattles
He was really nice and we got along well, but he had just gotten out of a relationship and didn't want anything serious....things fizzled out cause he decided it was more fun to go drinking and stand me up than actually talk to me.

Ah, story of my life. Although I think it's far more likely that they don't want anything serious....with ME. You give hope to all of us.

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