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So... I was basically diagnosed with herpes today. It still feels weird to say that. They took a viral sample or something of that nature to send to the lab. Those results will come back in 3-4 days. He gave me a prescription for the generic form of valtrex and sent me on my way.

I cried instantly and basically all morning. I've told my mom and my boyfriend (presumably who gave it to me). He had no idea and has never had any sort of ob or symptoms...except for cold sores in the fall and winter. He really wants to stay together and make things work, which seems like a relief.

This has been really stressful and I feel like there's a neon sign over my head with an arrow like "herpes right here". I know it's not the case, but it still feels that way.... Well I hope this place makes me feel not so alone.

So hi everyone :)

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:wavey:Hi living life and welcome.

I know exactly how you feel. I found out that I have H in October of last yr. Apparently it had been dormant for years. I had surgery and my immune system bottomed out an low and behold my gift appearred.

You have found a wonderful place in this forum for support and encouragement on your good days and bad days. there is also a lot of helpful information to the right of this forum. Many wonderful people here.

Take care....

Hugs.... Star.

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Welcome to the club!

You are going through the various stages of grief.

Learn all you can about this and you will see that it really is not that big of a deal.

Since your boyfriend has cold sores, you probably have genital hsv1 and got it from him performing oral sex on you. Hsv1 does not like to be genital and you more than likely wont suffer as bad as if you had hsv2 genital.

Come to the chat room, there you will find many nice people who can share their stories with you.


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Try a Lysine supplement for cold sores

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      Having HSV-2 has not bothered me at all for casual sex. I'm just avoiding sex during outbreaks, on suppressive therapy and using condoms every time with casual partners. Since my outbreaks appear on top of my penis, even during an outbreak the risk is minimal if I put a condom on as soon as I take my underwear off.  I guess it might be a slightly different case for a girl as if you have external lesions around your groin you could still infect someone even using a condom. And of course, condoms can break, which has happened to me over 10 times and caused myself to get infected in the first place.  I see it as a much more difficult now having a serious relationship, because I can't feel much with a condom on and really want stop using them. However, I don't want to put my new girlfriend to any risk - I would feel terrible if I infected her. 
    • viralfrog
      Does anyone have experience about people's reactions to Herpes in Asia? Personally I live in Thailand where I also caught the virus as a condom broke 4 years ago.  Unfortunately I infected my ex-girlfriend with HSV-2. This was just after I had caught the virus myself and we had sex before I noticed and realised what it was. In the beginning, a local doctor told me I have just hurt my foreskin with my jeans' zipper and the tests came as negative. After getting tested later it came as positive.  Anyways, my ex-gf (well educated, professional, 26 years old then) she had no idea what Herpes was in the first place. She didn't really care too much about it and didn't bother to get tested. During our 3 year relationship we kept having unprotected sex as usual and she never had any issues until at the end one day. She had a very minor outbreak once and nothing after that (lucky her, no like myself who gets terrible symptoms non-stop). I know she has a strong immune system, because she was never sick despite myself having bad colds quite often. In any case, she could not care less about this virus and didn't mind at all.

      I've seen a lot of hysteria surrounding Herpes in Europe and the US. What has been your experience in South-East Asian countries like Thailand? Do people perceive HSV-2 as a worrying disease? 
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      The full article is behind a paywall but you could write the the authors and request a copy.
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      The jury is still out as there needs to be additional experiments. Editas' results make me believe dosing was insufficient among other issues.
    • moialbalushi
      Wow interesting !! But how did they provide it to him !! I mean he is 27 years old !!

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