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iamscared86

SO CONFUSED, any help would be appreciated

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iamscared86

I had unprotected sex over a month ago, the day after I had pain in my pelvic/vagina, this lasted for 2 weeks.

Then my vagina became red/swollen with slight itching/burning. I went to planned parenthood ( I have no health insurance) and they tested me for everything BUT HERPES, and I came negative for everything. When I asked to be tested for herpes they said "herpes is sores" you don't have it.

My pain lasted so I went back again and they treated me for a slight bacterial infection and for a slight yeast infection. (Even though she seemed annoyed and acted like I was crazy)

Following the treatment and it's been over a month (altogether) I am still red/swollen, burning/itching with discharge and still no sores what so ever.

I don't know what to do, I've checked the local health center and they told me the only way to be tested for herpes was to go to a family doctor, which I don't have. Does this sound like herpes, also I've been having lower back pain/tired and after the first 2 weeks I vomited and felt feverish.

Also at this point I would just pay out of pocket to go to a dr. that will actually help me. Do gynecologists do blood tests for herpes? Should I just go to a gyno?

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RealisticGal

I had a type specific blood test done by my gyno, yes.

Just call some to ask if they can do it.

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iamscared86

I made an apt. at a gyno. It's been 5 weeks since possible exposure, would my test results be accurate?

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RealisticGal

It is possible that it might take up to 3 months or longer before antibodies form to a sufficient level for a reading. So if this test comes back negative or equivocal, you might wish to repeat it after 3 months from exposure. But it might come up positive at this point anyway.

Herpes doesn't play by the rules.

Make sure you ask for a type specific test that measures IgG antibodies. Tests that only measure IgM antibodies are considered less accurate.

Hope you can get this all figured out. :wavey:

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