That's ridiculous! I've been struggling to find a good dating site for HSV because sites like Positive Singles seem to have a lot of creepers and people like the ones you met.
Hang in there.
First, there is no way for your daughter to contract your genital herpes. Your daughter is at risk from kissing and close physical contact at school etc.
That doesn't look like herpes to me, not that we can tell a lot from pictures but that is nothing really resembling a herpes lesion. The second one looks very much like a mite or bug bite as the doc says.
Where on the body is this sore??
Would two months be enough to protect someone if the person partner had outbreak my ex had oral herpes for roughly two months only and we had unprotected sex no sore but got one the next day and he never got any visable sythoms down low