The right thing is not to have multiple sex partners in the first place. Unfortunately, our lustful & indulgent culture went the opposite way on that and now seems to celebrate a promiscuous lifestyle. If you can't resist temptation (i'm guilty), then the right thing is absolutely test before every encounter. I don't even see why that is in question. If for some reason you cannot test first, then don't have sex. Simple. And test for whatever you think is necessary as a couple. Whatever you would consider dealbreakers.
Outbreaks on the areas you describe are not common for hsv. Its very unlikely you would pass hsv2. There is no need to be a clean freak you are likely to do more harm to yourselves in the long run from all the bleach fumes. Plus hsv does not last long enough off the body to spread that easily.
I also bleach everything and I'm constantly cleaning. My baby doc appointment is on the 7th. I couldn't get anything sooner. What i find strange though is the clusters on the thigh/ buttocks don't itch. My child complains about itchy head or neck but not where the rash is at. I'm afraid it'll keep spreading. I don't know what to do. I'm using all the remedies I use for myself. Apple cidar vinegar, coconut oil, tea tree oil. Is its HSV-1 how could it but on the other parts of body? I wish I knew I'm so worried it's all Imy thinking about. I'm stressing myself out.
I'm sorry to hear so are still having such bad outbreaks. I understand. While i was on my period i had some relief but not doing very well now. I've heard people say the first year is the worst then things improve. I hope this is true. Hang in there and pray...that seems to be the only real sense of relief.
That's one of the things I worry about. I've been told no..but I feel anything is possible. I constantly bleach toilet, tub and that's one reason I began taking daily meds. I hope not. When does your baby go to doc?