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ok. so i got diagnosed like 4 months ago. i met a guy and told him before we started dating about the H. everything was going great...... then he started being weird once things started getting serious. Although we hadnt had sex yet.... it was bound to happen soon. he then stopped talking to me for no reason. last night i talked to him and found out that he said we could never have a serious relationship because of my H. what a fucking dick. i swear to god. i finally found a "great" guy and now because of this, he wont be with me. oh well, i sort of understand .... but i'm too nervous to tell anyone about it now.i'm gonna be alone forever if i tell any more guys that i date. oh well life sucks.

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My advice to you the next time you meet somebody special is to take your time getting to know them. I wouldn't come right out and tell them you have herpes until you see things are leading towards sex. This way the person has a chance to get to know you and realize that you are more than your herpes.


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  • 3 weeks later...

yes it does suck but but there is hope!

i have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. when i was diagnosed with h, i never thought i'd be able to tell anybody not to mind have a relationship with a fantastic guy! i had known him as a friend before we started dating, so even though it was still v difficult to tell him it made it a little easier. we've had a great time together and we haven't left h impact our lives. only thing though is that he got his first outbreak last week. it's been v hard on me, as i feel responsible. he says that it is ok, that he knew it was going to happen at some stage, but that i was worth the risk.

there is no need for people to spend there lives alone, just cos they have h. esp when there are forums like this one, which has loads of singles on it!!

good luck!

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