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I'm 21 years old and I have been living with herpes for 4 years. My very first boyfriend, cheated on me after a year and gave me herpes. I have had one previous relationship since then and I told him and he was ok with me have herpes...But now I have a new problem

I have been seeing this great guy for a month but I made a mistake one drunken night and slept with him. I still have not told him I have herpes and I need to tell him and I'm so scaried. I need someone to talk to about this or someone to help me about what to do...someone please help me.

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Jess, i have been in the same situation... Went out, had a great night of drinking with a guy i was dating, and wound up in the bed, it happens, You just need to be strong, sit down and tell him.. I did, i made a goal to tell him by a certain day, which was a week later, and i did. I told him that i had tested positive for HSV, cuz i didn't want to say the word "Herpes" but that only freaked him out more, cuz it sounds like HIV.. so don't do that!!! :roll: He took it well, i told him some things about it, And we were together for about 4 months, We broke up recently which has nothing to do with herpes. And recently i told one of my guy friends what's wrong with me, and ya know what!!! he also has it!! So we are ssoooo not alone, even if you feel like it. At first when i found out, i actually thought noone would want to be with me!!! But i am beginning to see otherwise, i am way tooo cool of a person to pass up cuz of herpes...and i'm sure you are too....So tell this guy, and i hope it goes well.. but if by chance it doesn't. at least know you did the right thing by telling him.

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