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Hi, I've had type II herpes for about 2 years now. When I got it I freaked out on the inside, but I never let it show. I've never talked about it. I only recently found this board. I Haven't had a relationship in the 2 years I've had this. I feel like what normal girl wants to go out with a guy who's infected. Before I had this If a girl came and told me she was infected I would of run. I feel lost ashamed dirty. I feel like ill never have a normal life. I just want to go back but I can't.

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Hello and welcome. We are glad you found us as this is the perfect place to talk about herpes. Many of us here have it and have gone through similar feelings.

Feel free to ask any questions or jump in with some advice for others.

Getting your problems off your chest here with no judgement is a great step to learning to accept this virus.

And have a read through the posts - there you will find many stories of people having great relationships regardless of herpes. Hopefully these will cheer you up at bit.

You may also care to check out live chat where you can mingle in real time with some other folks in the same boat.

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