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Gosh! im so upset im only 24 years old and my bf gave me this virus after cheating on me and also we broke up! i would be able to move on but i cant cos my Ob is a constant reminder that he cheated on me and that i have this disease! regardless of if its a skin disease or not it sucks ass!!!!everyday im on this site hoping wishing there is a news for a cure but there is none! i have considered suicide but i am too much of a punk to take my own life! i live with this secret daily and it is eating me from the inside out! i cant flirt with guys i cant respond to anybody that tries to talk to me because i know that nobody in their right senses would want to be with me except they already have this! i give up....how can every std but herpes have a cure? is this a joke? pls wake me up when there is a cure! and thanks herpes for ruining my life!

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hugs dinki

There is a guy out there for you............you will love you for YOU!! Herpes isn't the end at all. Goodness I cheated on my husband & he's still here with me, and that's how I got Herpes.

There actually ARE worse STDs out there, HIV being 1 of them............a killer no less.

It does suck, I do agree with you there, but you'll be ok.

hugs

xx

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hugs dinki

There is a guy out there for you............you will love you for YOU!! Herpes isn't the end at all. Goodness I cheated on my husband & he's still here with me, and that's how I got Herpes.

There actually ARE worse STDs out there, HIV being 1 of them............a killer no less.

It does suck, I do agree with you there, but you'll be ok.

hugs

xx

i find your case amazing! i'm happy for you! i really really hope they find a cure for this or a vaccine cos thats the only time i think someone would want to be with me! yes there are worse STDs out there but i would rather have them because they all can be treated with a pill or two ( eradicated from your system) no stupid recurrent outbreaks! well except for HIV! but i just wish this didnt exist! i feel like we can all prevent HIV as long as we use condoms but herpes isnt even prevented with condoms neither is it tested for routinely like HIV! gosh.....i hope this gets better! tho i doubt it! thx for replying me tho kitty

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Thanks dinki.....

Yes I hope they find a cure too, I'm not interested in the whole vaccination thing...........CURE is what I WANT!!

And yeah, I hear you too as far as not being able to prevent transmission by 100%, not even condoms :-(

Btw, Hep B & C aren't good to get either.

It will get better dinki.........

I have other health probs besides herpes, so it's rocked the boat on a few of them. But, at the end of the day, I just need to deal with it all, be positive. I don't have cancer, I don't have HIV - aids, I have this fantastic support forum to come to when I do need a pick me up, unless I tell people I have herpes, they don't know either. Mind you, in having said that, I'm sure if my hubby had bolted out the door I'd be feeling differently.

I have struggled a bit with my 2nd OB it was really starting to get me down.............it just means I need to STOP and take care of me for a little while until I feel better.

hugs

xx

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Thanks dinki.....

Yes I hope they find a cure too, I'm not interested in the whole vaccination thing...........CURE is what I WANT!!

And yeah, I hear you too as far as not being able to prevent transmission by 100%, not even condoms :-(

Btw, Hep B & C aren't good to get either.

It will get better dinki.........

I have other health probs besides herpes, so it's rocked the boat on a few of them. But, at the end of the day, I just need to deal with it all, be positive. I don't have cancer, I don't have HIV - aids, I have this fantastic support forum to come to when I do need a pick me up, unless I tell people I have herpes, they don't know either. Mind you, in having said that, I'm sure if my hubby had bolted out the door I'd be feeling differently.

I have struggled a bit with my 2nd OB it was really starting to get me down.............it just means I need to STOP and take care of me for a little while until I feel better.

hugs

xx

yes you're right hep a, b, and c are also bad but hep c is the only one without a cure! we just need a cure!

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I am all for a cure!

Keep your head up dinki. I too have felt very discouraged. I can't envision any girl wanting to be with me if I told her I have herpes. Sometimes I don't think I can even if I do hook up, and then I just feel like a piece of shit for being an asshole.

And I guarantee there is a guy that would want to be with you regardless of herpes. I'd probably want to be with you haha. :D But really life goes on any guy who really cares about you won't worry about herpes because it really is more a nuisance than an actual disease. But it does suck really bad because of the social stigma, and that's why I hate it.

Stay positive though. Best.

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I am all for a cure!

Keep your head up dinki. I too have felt very discouraged. I can't envision any girl wanting to be with me if I told her I have herpes. Sometimes I don't think I can even if I do hook up, and then I just feel like a piece of shit for being an asshole.

And I guarantee there is a guy that would want to be with you regardless of herpes. I'd probably want to be with you haha. :D But really life goes on any guy who really cares about you won't worry about herpes because it really is more a nuisance than an actual disease. But it does suck really bad because of the social stigma, and that's why I hate it.

Stay positive though. Best.

yea my life is pretty much at a halt now i feel like this virus rules me! i really can't do anything without considering herpes first its ridiculous! i do hope for a cure really bad and not just to be able to have a normal life but to ease the psychological distress i am experiencing! im pretty much practicing celibacy which sucks because i would be too paranoid i'll pass this on! i just know i would lose it if i have to live with this for 5 yrs or more so im hoping for a cure or this bastards are gonna see me in a lab suit doing the damn research myself!:mad:

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I have struggled a bit with my 2nd OB it was really starting to get me down.............it just means I need to STOP and take care of me for a little while until I feel better.

hugs

xx

Exactly!!! Whenever I have an outbreak I view it as my body's reminder to me: "Hey, you're overworking yourself, give yourself a break, relax, treat yourself to something healthy, catch up on sleep, etc." If you love your body, it will love you back!

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Exactly!!! Whenever I have an outbreak I view it as my body's reminder to me: "Hey, you're overworking yourself, give yourself a break, relax, treat yourself to something healthy, catch up on sleep, etc." If you love your body, it will love you back!

So true fidormula!! xx

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just to clarify, anything that is a virus cannot be cured. In my sexual health office, we referred to these as "The 4 H's"--HIV, Herpes, HPV, and Hepatitis (we cannot cure any hepatits, but there are vaccines).

I'd love a cure for herpes, though given the fact that there is no cure for any other virus, I'm not to hopeful. Something that completely suppresses the virus and prevents transmission though? I think is quite possible, and is precisely what we need. If I get that, I dont care what the technical results of my blood test are.

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just to clarify, anything that is a virus cannot be cured. In my sexual health office, we referred to these as "The 4 H's"--HIV, Herpes, HPV, and Hepatitis (we cannot cure any hepatits, but there are vaccines).

I'd love a cure for herpes, though given the fact that there is no cure for any other virus, I'm not to hopeful. Something that completely suppresses the virus and prevents transmission though? I think is quite possible, and is precisely what we need. If I get that, I dont care what the technical results of my blood test are.

We know that the antibodies can't be eliminated from your body because if you get titers drawn for chicken pox and you've been afflicted with this ailment before, since it is a virus it shows that you have antibodies to it likewise herpes and any other virus. The only prob with herpes is its recurrent sores and its possibility of infecting others. if it could remain latent like chicken pox forever then thats exactly what we want which is pretty much a cure! so yes we r on the same page we all want something that would completely suppress the virus and prevent infection to others or a vaccine to protect those that are not affected!

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I too come here everyday looking for news about some medical breakthrough...I,m confident there will be something for us eventually but its frustrating too....kinda pssise me off that money seems to be underlying reaSon a lot of things don't progress....well until something comes along I,ll just keep doing what I,m doing.....nothing :) have a great day

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