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Ok, here is my story in a nutshell. My husband and I seperated the week before thanksgiving of 2004. I got together with an old flame in May of this year from whom I got H. By some miracle or act of God my husband and I have agreed to try to work things out after a year of seperation. He does not have H. IS there anyone here who told a male partner about your H and they got it as a result? Were they upset? Spiteful? Hold it against you? I have told him that I have it and he understands what it is and what it causes. He has told me that hes still ok with it and it doesnt change how he feels. Another question is this...for the guys...how was your first OB and subsequent OB's?

I have had H approx 6 months. My first OB was awful...pains down my legs, sores everywhere, couldnt pee, flu like symptoms, and a 104 temp. Now I tend to get Ob's when I get my period or shortly before, but they are hardly worht noticing, maybe one or two little sores that cme and go within a week.

Thanks in advance!!!


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Hi and Welcome Amy

I was told about my H a few weeks ago. My soon to be husband was with me when I was told by the ER doctor. I cried for days on days after learning of this virus that had entered my body. I had no idea when and how I got this. He is very supportive and tells me over and over that he loves me and is not going anywhere. I too am afraid that he will get this, but he tells me he would rather get it from someone he loves than someone he doesn't. I went and seen my own DR this past week for the 1st time since I was diagn. He told me that about 60% of the ppl that have H do not have any symptoms at all. He told me it could lay dormate for years before something triggers it. I asked for a test for H, he said it takes 3-4 months for it to showe up in any blood test because they look for anti bodies in your blood. I was asked to be put on Valtrex to help from infectiing my bf. I just started the medication on the 14th of Oct. My 1st OB was terrible, I felt terrible, but the meds helped. My bf and I have talked alot about our sexual relationship. He does not want to use a condom. I was terrified about this at 1st, but he continued to reasure me it was ok and it was his desision and for me not to worry. I have heard that stress and the begin of your period can cause you to have an OB. I had my 1st OB the day of my period, plus I was going threw alot of stress. I am currently going threw a divorce also. If you are not on any medication I strongly advise you too get yourself on something. It helps them to become less often and they heal faster. GL to you!

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