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Foundd Out On MY Own Reallyy - Researchedd The Symptoms iWas Goingg Throughh & Then Had A Doctor Confirm It . & Noth The Physical , Emotional Even Mental Distress Of It All .

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Okay, what I meant was, what tests did the doctor do to get the diagnosis? Swab and culture of the lesions or blood tests or both?

Are you taking antiviral medications or have you tried any home remedies to help with the symptoms?

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& iHave Used Lidocaine iThink Its Callled ( To Freeze ) & Then Uhh Zovirax

Did the lidocaine numbing cream help?

What about the Zovirax? Is it helping at all with your symptoms?

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- iOnly Use The Lidocaine When iPee So That iWont Feel It Burningg ( Lately iHavent Needed It ) & The Zovirax To Me Is Worthless , Doesnt Do Muchh . . But This Is The Reoccuring Sores Havent Had Any Since The First Timee , But There Backk "/

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-& The Zovirax To Me Is Worthless , Doesnt Do Muchh . . But This Is The Reoccuring Sores Havent Had Any Since The First Timee , But There Backk "/

The Zovirax you use --- is it the ointment or pills?

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Maybe the pills would work better for you. A lot of folks on this forum have found that they have to try different things to see which works best for them. For some, acyclovir works great. For others, it doesn't seem to help but one of the others (valtrex or famvir) help a lot.

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aarmstrong --- that feeling is normal at this point. It seems like almost everyone goes through it at first.

But herpes is not something to be ashamed of. It is a virus, like the chickenpox or the flu. Anybody can get it at any time. It doesn't care who a person is --- it's just a virus.

Herpes doesn't change who you are as a person. You are still the same person, with all your good qualities (and the not so good ones, too) just the same as before.

Of course, it's hard to believe that at first. The social stigma about herpes is really strong, even though it is wrong.

Here's an article I like to share with folks who are feeling the way you do. It should help you see that the way you feel right now is normal, but it should get better as you learn more about herpes.

I Was Ashamed of My Herpes Until I Found Out How to Treat It

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I hope you find folks who can be supportive and understanding in your life. You do have a whole community of folks here. Glad you found this site.

Just to let you know, it isn't necessary for a person to have herpes in order to be non-judgmental. There are folks in this forum who do not have herpes, but are in relationships with partners that have it. They did the research and found out that it is not a reason to choose not to be with a person.

Anyway, you've come to the right place. Folks here get it, about the stigma and everything else you are feeling.

Did you know that herpes has been around for thousands of years, but the stupid stigma is very new? Back when I went through sex education classes, they didn't even bother to mention herpes.

Someone here posted recently that the stigma never existed until acyclovir was developed.

Suddenly, when there was a drug available to treat the herpes virus...a drug that companies can sell to make MONEY...then herpes becomes a "big deal?"

Hmmmmmmm...

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Your Right . Thanks For Speaking With ME About This & iAm Greatful iFound This Site Cause i Was Really Going Through It Tonight . Hopefully iWill Findd That Person Who Will Be There For Me Too ,& Even Friends . Thanks So Much & im Lookin Forward To Having Ypur Spport And Advise Along The Way .

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Aarmstrong, you sound exactly like me =( I was visually diagnosed but I am expecting for the official diagnosis tmw @ my follow up appt. I've been feeling so angry, and crying everyday abt this. I just don't know how I will come to terms w/ it. I've been going through this site since early December and Realisticgal is so right, ppl are generally very supporting. Its a great resource.

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I'm newly diagnosed and haven't cried at all. I'm too busy trying to figure out how to pee without screaming. The lidocaine cream just makes it worse, and the acyclovir is giving me diarrhea. I couldn't care less about the "social stigma". It's ridiculous. Anyone can get it. Who doesn't have sex? I don't care what people think. I just want to feel better.

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I'm newly diagnosed and haven't cried at all. I'm too busy trying to figure out how to pee without screaming. The lidocaine cream just makes it worse, and the acyclovir is giving me diarrhea. I couldn't care less about the "social stigma". It's ridiculous. Anyone can get it. Who doesn't have sex? I don't care what people think. I just want to feel better.

Have you tried peeing while sitting in a warm bath or while taking a shower with the water stream directed to your parts?

Also, being sure to drink a lot of water helps make the urine less acidic, less likely to burn.

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I'm newly diagnosed and haven't cried at all. I'm too busy trying to figure out how to pee without screaming. The lidocaine cream just makes it worse, and the acyclovir is giving me diarrhea. I couldn't care less about the "social stigma". It's ridiculous. Anyone can get it. Who doesn't have sex? I don't care what people think. I just want to feel better.

I've read on here that some members take a water bottle and squirt it or pour it over their parts down there while they are peeing and it helps (especially if you are not at home and can't take a bath or shower).

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I was just recently diagnosed in November. My first outbreak was unbearable, so I understand your pain. I took water to the bathroom with me to urinate. You can also mix some baking soda into it to counter act the acidity of your urine. I used a saline solution (like contact solution) on cotton swabs multiple times a day on the sores. It was cool and dried them out quickly. There are A LOT of herbal remedies you can try - I think they are better because the area you are dealing with is so sensitive. I also take Acyclovir and it helped, but I do experience loose bms as well... I am currently having another outbreak, but it is much less severe. I am having trouble coping with the diagnosis and have an appointment with a therapist next week to work through things. We (my boyfriend and I) were unsure who had it first... I am the only one with symptoms - but we both have decided to stay together and it has brought us so much closer. He is the thing that helps me cope with this every day. I am new to the site, but hopefully will find and be able to give some support!

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iam new to this site to . . the hard part is dealing & coping by myself . . & the rejection from my paretal source ( my mom ) ya know ? but hopefully i will get through this with my new family ( This Site )

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I have been newly diagnosed (about three months ago) with oral HSV1 and im freaking the hell out, on both the symptoms and the mental strain that this has caused me and a lil pissed off at my ex-partner for not telling me up front(just being honest). I’m so afraid that im going to spread it to a family member by accident (via them grabbing my cup and drinking out of it or me getting it on my hands and touching it or something I have touched then them touching it right after and touching their mouth etc.). And I guess the most thing im worried about is being shunned from a love interest if I tell them and the reject me, which would just crush me. Also if…. I do find a love interest that I wont be able to passionately (which I love to do or us to) kiss them without spreading it. Please help!

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