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Okay, let me see if I have this right..... If I had a cold sore active on my face and gave oral pleasure to my boyfriend... then I pretty much so just gave him genital herpes? Is that how it works? Does cold sore type morph into genital type? :confused:

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It doesnt "morph" into genital type. There are two types, 1 and 2. type 1's preferred location is oral, and type 2's preferred location is genital, BUT you can get either type in either place. And yes, you can pass oral herpes to the genitals via oral sex.

Hope this helps.

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Okay, let me see if I have this right..... If I had a cold sore active on my face and gave oral pleasure to my boyfriend... then I pretty much so just gave him genital herpes? Is that how it works? Does cold sore type morph into genital type? :confused:

It can all be a bit confusing, can't it? :wavey:

If you have skin to skin contact while you have an active sore, that is the most risky behavior. It is not a guarantee you will pass herpes by doing this --- much depends on the other person's immune status as well as whether or not they might already have herpes and not know it. But having contact with an active lesion is the most likely way to transmit HSV.

Just know that you can still pass it along even when you do not have a visible sore, by way of asymptomatic viral shedding. In fact, that is probably how most cases are transmitted.

No, as elm said, the virus will not "morph" types. But it is definitely possible to transmit an infection which you have orally to someone else's genitals. Also possible to pass a genital infection to someone else's facial/oral area. The type (HSV1 or HSV2) does not change, only the location of the infection.

Hope that helps!

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Well, then, I guess I gave this to myself then. I cannot count how many times my ex would want oral sex and I would say - ewww, but I have a cold sore right now. And he would say - so? it doesn't matter, go ahead. I had no idea that cold sores were hsv1 or that i could could give to him. i figured out that i had gotten it from him, i just figured he got it while we were broken up. but 5 bucks says my cold sore gave it to him and he gave it right back to me. well, at least now I know. thank you, ladies.

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Well, then, I guess I gave this to myself then. I cannot count how many times my ex would want oral sex and I would say - ewww, but I have a cold sore right now. And he would say - so? it doesn't matter, go ahead. I had no idea that cold sores were hsv1 or that i could could give to him. i figured out that i had gotten it from him, i just figured he got it while we were broken up. but 5 bucks says my cold sore gave it to him and he gave it right back to me. well, at least now I know. thank you, ladies.

Unfortunately, you don't necessarily "know." A lot of folks get really hung up on figuring out when and from whom they got herpes, but it is a question that is very difficult to answer with certainty. There are too many possibilities.

Your ex could have easily had the virus from some source other than you. And vice versa.

To me, trying to figure out who and when just seems like an exercise in futility.

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