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Im recovering from plastic surgery and was just treated to the news that the sore my gyno noticed on my pre surgery visit tested positive--she's making me come in for full results--dont know if its 1 or 2. So now that i've got these spectacular tits ( I got a breast lift)- i get to tell dudes that i have the big H.

Complicating this is the fact that Im seeing two guys. Have slept with both--one was a serious boyfriend over the summer who has come to realize he thinks im the one for him (im not so sure but he was a great boyfriend and I want to remain friends--he wanted kids, I didnt), the other is this super sweet guy I saw a real future with and was just waiting to have an "exclusivity" talk with. In between the summer break up and meeting this new guy I had a bit of a wild phase and went out with a swinger-we went to sex parties and had sex with lots of ppl (ALWAYS WITH CONDOMS). So I dont think I got it from either of my current partners.

Im pretty devastated. I played with fire and got burned and now that Ive calmed down and found someone great I get this.

Im shut in on bedrest--so Im even more depressed.

Does anyone here not experience frequent outbreaks? The one I had just seemed like a small rash on one side of my labia and it went away after a few days. I feel like ive had this before--maybe a few years ago--and nothing until now. Could I have had it all along? Is there a way to tell from the tests if i was only recently infected?

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Find out what type it is. If you get a swab test on an active outbreak and it is positive but, at the same time, you get a negative result on a blood test, that usually indicates a new infection of recent origin. You need to get a swab test on the outbreak and a blood test now and again in about 3-4 months.

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    • Quest
      Him holding my hips, grabbing ass, then grabbing his cock is what I worry about. I also worry about shedding anywhere from the boxer shorts area and that's a mighty big area. It is the unknown. It would be nice to cover the entire area and then I just don't have to worry! Then the part that is exposed which  would be a very small spot. Maybe cover with that liquid glove?!? I just like the idea of doing my best
    • 35hope
    • Hairpees
      I wouldn’t because that would be outing myself as well unfortunately. It just sucks because our mutual friends have no clue why I carry such resentment towards him, and wonder why they can’t even bring up his name around me anymore. Im sure they think I’m a crazy jealous person who is hurt things didn’t work out or that I’m being dramatic for no reason. I can’t explain to or confide in anyone but the users on this forum.
    • Jorjanewnew
      Girl! I am actually on the same exact position. My new bf gave it to me and he put the blame on me! When he was my 2nd partner and I hadn’t had sex in 5 years (last guy was a virgin). I know that alone feeling but know you’re not alone. I just got diagnosed 2 weeks ago too. It’s crazy you see yourself differently but I promise no one around you does.
    • Cas9
      How would that location (upper crack) come in contact with him during doggy style sex? Maybe after the act if he fell on top of you while you're face down. I would suggest simply observing whether there are sores in these areas that are somewhat removed from the genital area. If there are no sores than the odds of you transferring to him such as the lower stomach or leg etc.., are pretty damn low. Obviously, we can come always come up with a scenario where you could transmit. For example, if you were on your stomach and he was sliding his dick up and down your butt crack and you had sores there, then yes, he could get infected. If you were just shedding there it would be less likely but possible. But try doing that with your clothes on. I don't think that would work out very well; Do you?  Wearing clothes during sex like that woman you portrayed in your earlier comment is sexy. But that's all together different.

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