hey Im matt from NJ

[MattinNJ]

Just found this today..nice to help people im kinda a veteren having this for about 15 years now.

be happy to answer any questions.

matt

[sandyisland]

Hi Matt

Welcome to the site. Have had it for years also. Wasnt a problem until recently. I am recently seperated/divorce and not sure how to handle the whole dating thing. Kinda sucks.

[MattinNJ]

hey

yeah know what you mean.

I just tell them up front..seems to be ok with most..more than you would think.

[Bababooey]

Hi Matt, and welcome!

Come check out the Chat Room when you get a chance. A lot of people come there looking for advice. There are also a ton of really cool people in there to hang out with.

[Kitty123]

I hope that if I'm ever in a situation where I become single, that it will be as easy as everyone says it is. This is what gets me down all the time.

[JerseyJohn]

Sup dude. Yeah, I just found it, too. I found out 12 years ago...bummer, but you're right. It's not uncommon to find a person who is ok with at least trying to make it work.

[overachiever]

Hi guys. I am a newbie being diagnosed in june. I live in Ridgewood, NJ. What about you Jerseyites?

[JerseyJohn]

Pequannock here, bro.

[overachiever]

I am a girl not a "bro"!

I know where Pequannock is! I work in Oakland.

[JerseyJohn]

Haha....yeah, my bad. I realized after I looked at your profile. I know where Oakland is. Sometimes I work around Skyline Drive. It's kind of surreal when you think about it...so many people are dealing with it and yet the network seems a bit thin in the membership department. You'd think that if at least half the people carrying realized it, there would be an enormous community here just in NY and NJ alone.

[lovelost2010]

hello im jadalene im looking for a senior but it seems like everyone is just finding out they have it so i have some questions that i need to be answered.

[Tiny]

As in a senior citizen?

I've had herpes 9 years...does that make me senior...when does one get ones herpes pensioners card

[RealisticGal]

ROFL at VTiny.

Love, just go ahead and ask your questions of the forum. However, I would suggest you start your own thread. This is Matt's. You will probably get more answers if you start your own.