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PeaceLove90

on 2nd ob and nightmares

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PeaceLove90

its been 4 months since my first ob. and this ob is not bad at all just 2 bumps and no pain at all. i am not on any meds. the only prob. i have is when i know having this it makes me depress from the man who gave me this is out there whom took my virginity with out asking and gave me this which now i feel like no one wants to be with me. :( i feel soo dirty ... i just been having more and more nightmares from that night while on this ob. i hope they decrease over time. im just sad:(

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d00m kitty

awwwwwww big hugs PeaceLove...........yes I hope given time it will get better for you too. Just wondering if you're having counselling? If not, may be a good idea. You're not dirty either ok, hugs to you xxx

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package deal

if this man took your virginity without asking then you were raped and i would urge you to file charges and to get sopme counseling. You are not dirty just the Bxxxxxst who raped you

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PeaceLove90

i know but its been months, i was scared to do it. i felt useless, like it didnt matter. i feel likes it too late now to do anything. i would love to take his ass to court and take that asshole down

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lb1809

I would say go for it. A similar thing happened to me, although I'm not sure he's the one who gave me herpes, nor will I ever know. Unfortunately, my incident falls under the gray area of 'date rape'. I never did anything because I had no idea what had happened until a year later, and now that its two years later, I just don't care. I'm in a relationship with the best guy ever, and we're planning to get married in a couple years. I couldn't tell you if its too late or not, but if it would help you then at least look into it. and echoing a couple previous posts, I highly advise you at least look into counseling and give it a try. Just remember that you're better than that dirtbag, and you're a strong person. You can do whatever you put your mind to and overcome all of life's problems. lots of hugs, and best of luck to you

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