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crystalrenee93

Could my test be wrong?? :'(

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crystalrenee93

Hello,

0kay long story narrowed down here we go.

So me and my fiance been together for 3 months- short I know but im in love and it will be a long engagement. Okay he has a heart condition and gets tested and he come back negative for anything. Okay so I noticed a bump one bump it was a little tender thats about it and it was near my vagingal opening but where my undies rub. It didn't hurt when I peed or burn, the thing didn't itch tingle burn etc. Well I hate stuff on my body and I kept messing with it and put bandaids and neosporin, and antibacterial ointments on it. Well I made an appointment bc I was scared. I researched over and over what it could be, even herpes. I noticed the bump a couple weeks ago and it was there for like two weeks. It didn't crust over it didn't hurt and didn't itch nothing. When I went to my obgyn prior for my for first time everything was good, he asked if the bump hurt and I said just a little, this was a week before I went back from bump. Well when I went back because of the bump he swabbed it and then left come back and said it is herpes. He just kept saying it. I was shocked and freaked out. I asked him how long ago would I have had to gotten it and he said 2-20 days ago bc it was my first breakout (only one bump) I don't get cold sores etc. My first bf i did ocassionally without and he was clean by far and then my ex before this one was clean i suppose, but they say males show no symptoms sometimes. They also say it easier for a male to transfer then female. But the First thing I thought was the fucker cheated (lol) so I go to my man and we talked he said u know I didn't cheat etc and he didn't believe it herpes bc of many reasons, and I believe it. Well I still researched and come to a conclusion it couldn't be. Well I get a call from doc and he says the test come back positive, I never seen test nothing. The sore wasnt blister like or nothing it was more like an ingrown hair. I looked up all symptoms and checked it all out nothing like what I have.. well I donated blood a month ago and never got a call saying my blood was bad or nothing. Well could the test be wrong? I have known to take a test and it be a false positive. My man don't have nothing on his stuff nor does he break out. I didn't break out bad at all just a bump. I had the talk with my ma bc I was shocked and crying my eyes out, she believes it false. My doctor was really rude about stuff when I was in there and acted like he had to be right, my bf wants to go in and talk with him bc he pissed. Should I still go get a blood test? I mean my examine test prior to results, was normal, just culture supposibly come back positive. My sister also said this doc isn't so great so idk. Can someone help. KEEP IN MIND I DIDN'T HAVE ANy BLISTERS JUST A BUMP, IT DIDN'T ITCH OR BURN OR CRUST OVER ETC. I PEED NORMAL, AND HAD NO BREAKOUTS. Im really curious about it. Please help...

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crystalrenee93

Why I said my exs. Bc they the only ones I did without and I never broke out nothing with them and with this guy I just breakout with a bump and we been together for awhile prior to breakout, but he done his ex in the butt without protection and im the only one he does without. And im pretty sure he gotten head before plenty of times and idk bout given but yeah. So idk if he could have gotten hsv-1 and that's how I got it or if he got it doing that girl in the butt. Now I know hsv-1 cold sores! And hsv-2 genital BUT hsv-1 CAN COME Around genital area as well.

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