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Hard not to play the guessing game..

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Okay, so I realized that I posted my original thread in the wrong area. Let's try this again!

Hello! I'm brand new to this site and I'm looking to find real people to be able to talk to about finding out that I have herpes. I'm currently having a very hard time without my normal friends and family that I generally use for my support group on other aspects in my life I'm feeling extremely lost and confused as to where to go with this new information. I currently have a boyfriend that I have not told yet, and am looking for productive and positive ways to tell him.

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then you have came to the right place letitsnow:) here it is a lot of information also how to tell. I hope if you tell him that he gives support.It is a normal reaction to feel lost and confused with this information.


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    • valleynovascotia
      Any advice on on how i can change the way she thinks of her insecurities in the event I ever see her again or hang out with her or do you guys think that it's better too just walk away. The truth is though i never met another girl like her before and she was fine with me having herpes i could tell by the she reacted too it . How do you change the way someone views them self that has low self esteem. 
    • WilsoInAus
      Note @Asr624 that an IgM result does not confirm a herpes diagnosis. Was the rash swabbed as well?
    • LiveLife100
      Yes it's entirely possible that he didn't know and just now gave it to you. I've been with my husband almost 19 years and he was recently tested and is still negative. It's still possible of course that I could give it to him at any point. Sounds like you have a strong marriage and there is no reason this needs to be an issue other than a minor annoyance. I have 2 healthy children and have had no related medical issues due to HSV.
    • Hellothere123
      I have been with him and didn’t tell him and now I can’t tell him because I know it would ruin any chance of reconciliation. I don’t want to live with this and I don’t want to live without him 
    • Asr624
      I am so sorry that happened to you. No one deserves that. Praying for you. 

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