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salih703

In relationship with a female with HSV?

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salih703

Hello. i am new to this site. I was recently released from prison after serving 5 years. WOW, right. Any way, during the last year of my incarceration, the mother of my child, contacted H. She told me, explained to me her situation, etc.I love this woman very much, and as a result we are currently in a relationship.

I cant talk to any of my friends as they don't have the mental capability to even comprehend a MAN without H, loving or even CARing about a female who has H. So thats a dead issue.I have a few friends who have been informed by her about her H, yet i cant go to them for advice. So I have come to this site for help. Anybody who is interested in helping me, message me, or what not. Aight.

Its a lot of issues Im dealing with, and Im man enough to seek advice, and seek HELP. THANK 24/M/VA. Anybody in VA?

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Aayolee

WOW.................... You have a good heart. I havent been lucky enough to meet anyone like u, your lady is very fortunate. this site really does give some helpful advise tho Im new here too. I googled several articles n they helped a lil honestly its not so much the physical part of the disease which hurts much......its the stigma i've forced myself to stay with the person who infected me i truly felt betrayed but at the end of the day I stayed bcuz I was afraid to receive anymore rejection I tried meeting a few new ppl but they all ran for the hills when i tld them. All the best.

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salih703

thanks.. youll be fine thou. its always somebody will care sincerely about you. just got a find them. thanks for your post.

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wonderingif

It took me two years to contact H from my Girlfriend. I knew the risks. If you are careful, these risks can be highly minimized. I was not so careful.

If you love and care for her, be with her. My first few months with H has not been easy, but life is not easy. You may never catch it. If you do, you know the risks.

The question is up to you. You have to decide.

Be happy in your life. That's the biggest decision. :)

One more thing... RESEARCH this VIRUS before you take the risk! I did not. H can be different from person to person. Some hardly notice they have it. Others, like me, find it a life changing experience and are VERY sick for months! Make SURE you accept the risks before you expose yourself to the virus. Once you have it, you have it for LIFE. Good luck.

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salih703

Thank you, for your advice. I have been carefull, and im actually starting to be even more carefulll. thanks...

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