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Friday the 13th last week was my 21st birthday and i had to much to drink and ended up having unprotected sex with a girl

the next nite i felt burning in the testicles and the tip of my penis also testicles feel really heavy

now its day 5 and i notices yesterday a red dot on the sip of my penis

now today there is to more but there just dark red dots

it doesnt burn when i pee but i been way to paranoid cant sleep been really depressed about it

the doctor said that it doesnt seem like herpes to her but id have to wait to see if they come out and blister but the thing is is that i knew the girl got around a bit and my freind told me after he heard she had herpies but she says she doesnt and ppl talk alot of bull in this small town i live in about ppl that are sexualy active so am i just paranoid

if anyone that has herpes can help me out or even help me cope with this please add me to msn

my msn messanger is dyer67@hotmail.com


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Trust your doctor... but make sure you get a culture and a blood test... just to be sure and on the safe side... she may have it and not know... so be nice to her....

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thx man

but since my doctor told me im after getting 2 more red bumps

but i dont know what the first stages are

i wanna talk to a male that has herpes and share info with him so maybe he can help me out


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qustions id really like answered

is it normal for the night after to feel symptoms like tingling and irritation

pelvis hurting

and then 5 days after getting 3 red spots that are bearly visible ?

someone goto add me to msn and give me some advise or msg me on this

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I have never had an outbreak... I only found out I have it because my ex said I gave it to him.... when I know it would have to be the other way around because no other male I have been with has it...

have you looked at pics online to see if they match up???

go back to the doctor and request that he do a herpes workup anyway... just for a piece of mind... worse case you have it... but trust that life goes on anyway...

red bumps could be anything I have gotten them from shaving... and even had bumps that were ingrown hairs... we freak out when stuff happens down there but... really we need to just trust in our docs....

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thx again for replying

but my doc said there was nuthing she could do untill they blister

but it hasnt been a week yet since i beleive i was infected im just wondering if im just paranoid cuz i heard a rumor about the girl or

if i actualy have something

cuz aparently any other std doesnt break out 5 days after

and the girl i was with b4 this girl i been with 4 yrs

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Actually if your doctor told you that she was wrong... there is a blood test for herpes... like I said... I have never had an outbreak... but tested positive with the blood test.....

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It takes the body a few weeks to develop HSV antibodies that will be detectable with the blood test though, maybe that is why the doc says there isn't anything she can do. :?: Did she give you the option to come back in at a later date for a followup?

From the posts I am reading it seems that most doctors aren't as knowledgable about H as we would like them to be. I know that personally, all my gyno asked me when he saw me after my diagnosis (I went on a walk-in appt and saw one of his partners when I was actually tested) was whether or not they had called me with my results. I told him they had, and that was all he had to say on the subject. (I was there this visit for my annual pap) Didn't offer me any information on H or ask me if I had been given any info on my previous visit. Just wrote me an "as needed" Rx for Valtrex to take during outbreaks. Everything I have learned about Herpes is because of the net and boards like this one...

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i feel like checking out over this

my girlfreind of 4 yrs left me new years eve

then i hooked up with a girl last friday on my birthday and ended up with what i think is herpes

i feel like no girl is ever gonna love me again

is it normal for me to have all the symtoms and everything within a week after and how long do i have left after i noticed the red spots on my penis head

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