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kamronsma

I was diagnosed about two weeks ago after I had every symptom you can have. It was painful and an awful experience. The person who gave it to me knew he had it but said nothing until I had symptoms and asked him if he had anything. I am more angry than anything about this whole thing. I should not have to be ashamed because of something a mean guy gave to me.but in our society I am ashamed. I'm not sure what to do.and I have no one close to me to talk to. I feel dirty and that I can never really be with anyone again. I could really use some friendly advice.

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Stillhavemycats

It is wrong what he did to you. You have a right to feel anger. People should always tell their partners if they are at risk and allow them to make the decision for themselves. However, now that there is no choice, you have it... anger is not going to change that fact. The more you give into anger and feelings of shame, the more he wins. This doesn't have to change you. It is possible to accept it and live a healthy life with this. Please join us in the chat room. There are a lot of people in there that are living happy full lives and can help answer any questions or give you advise to help you move through the anger. Please join us. It helped me tremendously.

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You will likely go through a range of emotions, but keep in mind that unfortunately our actions have consequences, and for most of us, this disease is one of them. I will say though that going forward you should focus on natural treatment only, the medications do not provide a cure, nor does the natural treatment, but atleast the natural treatments are just as effective as the medication, but without the side effects.

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