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RosyRiv

Fuck Guys!!! (sorry boys)

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RosyRiv

So i started hanging out with this guy i met and i told him i had hsv-2 and he was ok with it, he asked questions and everything was fine. I visited him over a weekend and of course we had sex. Later in the week he texts me and goes i think i have it, so i tell him what to do and the symptoms i had and i tell him to go get tested ASAP so what does he do, he skips his appointment, ignores my texts and calls and ends up telling his friend i have it. His friend told one of mine and then it got back to me. LIKE REALLY?!?! and to top it all off he texted me today and was like im sorry to text you but im really fraking out and having a nervouse break down. and later said i dont want to go to the dr becasue i am arafid of the truth. Im sorry but i hate guys right now like this is something that is so serious to me and hes just in denial about it and not taking it seriously. :madd:

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bestronger

I'm sorry. Sounds to me like that guy has a lot of growing up to do. You told him. Don't blame yourself!

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I'm sorry. Sounds to me like that guy has a lot of growing up to do. You told him. Don't blame yourself!

I agree, i think your hanging with the wrong "boys" sounds like a group of friends that gossip a bit much.

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