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kace88

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kace88

I think that I have had herpes type 2) 2 yrs now but i don't know until a few weeks ago when my husband of almost 2 yrs showed me that he has bumps on his penis but we hadn't had sex in a month or 2 before he started getting the bumps. so i checked myself and i have them too. Is it possible that I had them for 2 years and he is just now getting it too? and he didn't start getting the bumps til a month or 2 months after we had sex? And NO he has not cheated on me I am 100% sure of that!!!!!!!!! I am scared to tell him that I have the bumps too!!!!!! what should I do is it even possible he got it from me? :(

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nurquelle

Ever thought you could have gotten it from him? Lotts of people carry this virus without even knowing it. I myself had it atleast 7 years before i had an outbreak. I wouldnt worry about who gave it to who, whats important is you both get treatment and learn how to deal with this pesky little thing :)

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kace88

but i am to scared to tell him that i got it what if he leaves me after almost 2yrs of being together?

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nurquelle

I was ( still am ) In a relationship for around 2 years when i found out i had this, i thought he would high tail and run! I was so sure, id resigned myself to being single again. So i called him to tell him what had happened, ( he was serving away in Germany at the time, in the Military), explained everything, and his exact words to me were, " We have a beautiful daughter, a beautiful house, we're getting married soon, why would something like that bother me?"......what im trying to say is, if this guy really does love you, herpes isnt going to change that, i can promise you :)

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kace88

Thank You

I want to say thank you to everyone that has been so nice to me and has helped me out. And I did tell my husband and his response was "well if you did there's nothing we can do about it now." And he still loves me!!!! We are still together and happy!!!!!!!!! :D

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nurquelle

seeeee, you had nothing to worry about :) I was more nervous about telling my partner about my pcos once we decided to try for a baby, than the "i've got herpes" phonecall. So gald you're both very happy, and i wish you many happy years ahead! Nice to see a positive post ^_^

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