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I recently got diagonised and I knew I got it from my ex, he knew he has it but for hasn't had a OB for a long time and thinks that he won't give it to anyone. He is on anti-depressant and i don't wan to make him feel worse but at the same time who do I tell but him? I almsot feel that he is either going to deny the fact that he gave it to me, or he would just feel really bad, both i don't want to happen. If anything all i want right now is someone who i can talk to openly about it. don't really know what to do...

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Where in NY do you live? There are many nice support groups there.

Well if you ex already knows he has it then it won't be a big blow to him. You just need to inform him that he is still contagious and he should consider either using condoms or suppressive meds the next time he dates someone.

Come to the "Chat Room", there you will find many nice fellow Herpsters who can offer you their support.

Good luck!


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