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bliss84

Hi,

I just found out about this forum. It gives me a little hope again.

Here's my story.

I first had the genital herpes infection 4 years ago.

I had my first relapse after 2 years.

Since then it has been constant.

I've been in hospital for a few months because the doctors don't know what else they can do.

I'm out of hospital but take daily 2 times 800mg Aciclovir. Besides I take supplements of vitamins, vitamin C and lysine. I do constantly have little cuts but not as severe as when I was in hospital.

I'm getting desperate as in my country (in Western Europe) they can't help me more than this.

I'm single but 'd love to have a family someday and I'm desperate to find a solution, that's why I am looking for a specialist - anywhere in the world - who can help me with my situation. Where can I find such a doctor?

Thank you for your help.

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Vidhya

Good luck friend, I felt moved by your story. Hopefully other more knowledgeable fellows here will share some thoughts and advice. Get well!

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bliss84

thx

Thank you.

I'm longing for the first day without any cuts and not feeling tired.

I'm longing for being able to date again ànd having sexual activity with that.

I'm just desperate after 2 years.

I can take one more heavier medication, that's Valaciclovir, but if I do that and I get resistent, there is no solution anymore.

Please let me know if there is any specialist in the world about this virus.

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Movingslowly

You should definitely try Valtrex. You may need a heavy daily dose of 1000mg. I developed resistance to acyclovir as well. Now, Im on Valtrex and it has worked for almost a year, but I'm developing resistance again. I will have to go back to old school medicine if I continue to develop resistance. I know your pain. I have had a continuous outbreak for over two years. Miserable.... I never slept around and always used protection besides with my three long term partners and I still ended up with this contagious crap. This virus refuses to give up. There is a drug called AIC316 that has had successful phase II clinical trials and it nearly eliminates all outbreaks and drastically reduces the risk of transmission. There has been no evidence of drug resistance in clinical trials so far. The problem is getting it to market sooner than later. Go to the herpes research forum and you will find plenty of discussions about the medication. This is the next best treatment before a cure if you know what I mean. Hope this helps you see a brighter future.

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bearbubbles4

go on a paleo diet but without the nuts. :) it will make a difference!

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bliss84

Thx.

Valtrex is the commercial name of valaciclovir.

I'm going to start on that one now.

Thank you.

I'm a dietitian bearbubbles :)

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