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Hi everyone, just wanted to share this with you all!

I was diagnosed with genital HSV-1 at the beginning of Oct. Yes it was devastating at first, but since then I have more or less come to terms with it.

I have also been seeing a guy for about a month. up until this weekend, we hadn't slept together. He didn't mind just cuddling and making out and didn't ask why we we're going to the bone zone yet. Finally, I knew I had to tell him and when I did he didn't care at all. He's younger than me, but it blows my mind how mature he is when it comes to this. We talked about it and he asked if I had ever considered using female condoms.

I hadn't considered it, the thought never even crossed my mind. He told me his doctor suggested it when he was dealing with an HPV infection. The female condom covers a lot more surface area than a male condom (basically covers most of the labia etc) and therefore offers more protection.

Long story short: I went to a women's sex shop and bought myself a bunch of them (they're expensive, but I think you can get them at sexual health clinics for free etc). We have had sex twice using female condoms and while they are a little floppy and silly looking, they don't take away any more sensation than male condoms. They take some getting used to when you're putting them in, but all in all I think it's totally worth the trouble/price. Once it's in and the sex has begun, you don't even notice them at all.

Hope this helps!

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Thanks for sharing. I have never heard of such a thing. I am most impressed with your guy and his openness to you after telling him. Gives me hope.

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o not think i would ever use a female condom.........:))we should try to live our sex life as normal as possible!

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    • viralfrog
      Having HSV-2 has not bothered me at all for casual sex. I'm just avoiding sex during outbreaks, on suppressive therapy and using condoms every time with casual partners. Since my outbreaks appear on top of my penis, even during an outbreak the risk is minimal if I put a condom on as soon as I take my underwear off.  I guess it might be a slightly different case for a girl as if you have external lesions around your groin you could still infect someone even using a condom. And of course, condoms can break, which has happened to me over 10 times and caused myself to get infected in the first place.  I see it as a much more difficult now having a serious relationship, because I can't feel much with a condom on and really want stop using them. However, I don't want to put my new girlfriend to any risk - I would feel terrible if I infected her. 
    • viralfrog
      Does anyone have experience about people's reactions to Herpes in Asia? Personally I live in Thailand where I also caught the virus as a condom broke 4 years ago.  Unfortunately I infected my ex-girlfriend with HSV-2. This was just after I had caught the virus myself and we had sex before I noticed and realised what it was. In the beginning, a local doctor told me I have just hurt my foreskin with my jeans' zipper and the tests came as negative. After getting tested later it came as positive.  Anyways, my ex-gf (well educated, professional, 26 years old then) she had no idea what Herpes was in the first place. She didn't really care too much about it and didn't bother to get tested. During our 3 year relationship we kept having unprotected sex as usual and she never had any issues until at the end one day. She had a very minor outbreak once and nothing after that (lucky her, no like myself who gets terrible symptoms non-stop). I know she has a strong immune system, because she was never sick despite myself having bad colds quite often. In any case, she could not care less about this virus and didn't mind at all.

      I've seen a lot of hysteria surrounding Herpes in Europe and the US. What has been your experience in South-East Asian countries like Thailand? Do people perceive HSV-2 as a worrying disease? 
    • Burty
      The full article is behind a paywall but you could write the the authors and request a copy.
    • OFMDH
      The jury is still out as there needs to be additional experiments. Editas' results make me believe dosing was insufficient among other issues.
    • moialbalushi
      Wow interesting !! But how did they provide it to him !! I mean he is 27 years old !!

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