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lookingforhope

so I test positive......

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lookingforhope

ONly to have my bf break up with me. I go out drinking the next day and guess who gets pulled over?!? Of course me! Worst week of my life...Im not happy. I can't date around here because I live in a small town...can't tell my family what I'm going through because they will never understand. God has it out for me....I'm 29 and I know the next person that asks me when I'm getting married I'm going to flip and tell them to fuck off! I don't care if I'm at work and get in trouble. It's an ignorant Fucking question.

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JBnATL

Sorry to hear your bad luck. I guess the only place you have to from here is up.

Many people have told me that getting herpes changed their lives for the better. Most people reevaluate their lives start working out and are more selective in whom they date.

Come to the "Chat Room", there you will find many nice fellow Herpsters who can offer you their support.

Good luck!

JB

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lookingforhope

Thank you JB, for all of your insight. It's going to take some time for me to get back to my old self

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GeminiV

Hi look.. well I just had to reply and say that, probably, you'll never get to your"old self".. this stuff has a way of making u reevaluate urself... and like any sudden changes.. some are good and some are not.. in the way that if it wasn't broken, it didn't need to be fixed.. there is always a brighter side to everything.. some days u'll see it.. hang in there...

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ONly to have my bf break up with me. I go out drinking the next day and guess who gets pulled over?!? Of course me! Worst week of my life...Im not happy. I can't date around here because I live in a small town...can't tell my family what I'm going through because they will never understand. God has it out for me....I'm 29 and I know the next person that asks me when I'm getting married I'm going to flip and tell them to fuck off! I don't care if I'm at work and get in trouble. It's an ignorant Fucking question.

Honest? <<how to communicate this without sounding like a jerk...>> Your post actually got me feeling a little better because I was where you are now. While I didn't get pulled over for DUI, I did get fired and got dumped by a guy I really liked at the same time I found out I tested positive for GHSV-2. It was the worst time in my life. I'm glad I didn't own a gun because I probably would have eaten it that week. That was this past April. I want to tell you that it does get better. Sure I got rejected 9 times out of 10. But that 10th person knows me, stands by me and cares for me. Don't give up hope - your handle says it all - you'll find it.

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