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blessed23

:wavey:Hello, I was diagnosed about 2 1/2 years ago. I've used this site for info but decided to sign up today for extra support! Ive recently begun dating again after a 3 year relationship and it's nerve racking. . . . it's hard!!!!

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wastedhousewife

Just try to remember that dating was a little nerve-wracking before, too. People without herpes get rejected, get dumped for stupid reasons, and have bad relationships. It's just the way things go - and herpes is really just another part of it. Many people have this virus, and many more are understanding. I hope that you meet good people and have a positive dating experience! Good luck!

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Jenkins

im 18 turning 19 soon, my dating life hasnt even started...ive had herpes since i was 16 but not even aware til recent... idont know what to do

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blessed23

Hey Jenkins. . . . I have had to tell 2 people thus far. One took it very well, didn't mind at all and even reassured me multiple times that it is okay! The other guy wasn't educated at all on herpes and therefore reacted a bit differently. At first he was okay but then told me that he still wasn't comfortable with it. That was fine with me! All I asked is that he be honest. I read (I think on this site a while back) that having herpes can be a positive. . . as it forces you to get to know a person before moving your relationship to the next step. This is so true and I view it as a pro!!!

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blessed23

Jenkins: check out the positive attitude part of this site! It really helped me!

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welcome

glad the sight help you learn about herpies and glad you joined. Yes dating can be hard.

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