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Alswaiting10

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Alswaiting10

Just saying hi to the site. I'm over feeling depress about my condition but still very much angry about the situation. A little background, it's been a year since I discovered I have HVS 2. Here's the interesting part at the beginning of that year IGG for HSV2 was negative I broke up with my girlfriend at the time and casually dated (no sex) mid year another test still negative. Hooked up with a friend had a little fling and ended it in August, later i meet my future fiance whom we decide to wait til we get married (no sex :( lol). In December 2010 had my first outbreak so of course I suspect my friend the last person I had sex only she tested negative on her IGG...So what the hell!:madd: Oh after my outbreak my fiance got test she's negative.

After that I did research I found that most occurrences happen 2 to 12 days after initial infection, 2-12 days i was going to and showering at the gym religiously, thats the only place my penis was exposed to the dangers of the world lol. I know it sounds crazy but it all true.

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cat333

Heyoooo... I'm from Houston as well!!

From what I understand, there are lots of occurrences of false negatives when taking a blood test. The only sure fire way to test for herpes is taking a swab of an outbreak. Meaning the girl you slept with tested negative but probably has it and is asymptomatic. That's just my guess.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this but welcome to the site! This forum is a great place to get information about the glorious gift of herpes.

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