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i am a horrible, stupid girl.

i just found out today i have genital herpes.

because of me lives are being ruined. i am losing my job. and the guy that gave it to me denies it!

i know its him because he was the only guy i was with before my "mild breakout". he is a part of my group of friends. i have to make sure he knows he has it or he will infect more people, but if i do that, everyone will find out i have herpes.

and then there is the really, really bad part.

so freaking out!

what should i do?!?!

Panic Girl! :shock:

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first things first...

BREATHE

it is going to be living in you for the rest of your life. it sucks... SO bad, but there is nothing you can do. it will be okay.

that dude does suck ass, but you can't control his life... don't try to. i have a friend who has it and doesn't tell sexual partners. i can't go around and stop her. you can't stop this jerk.

if you feel strongly about not wanting to see him... then don't.

just be thankful that your outbreak is/was mild. SERIOUSLY

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