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I was diagnosed with "genital herpes, unspecified" this weekend.

Starting feeling a non-specific malaise on friday and thats when painful bumps sprouted. Then on Saturday, they erupted and got very uncomfortable. On Sunday I went to a women's ER and was seen. I've got the full-spectrum STD panel of tests just to make sure. Without out test results, I dont know if it's type 1 or type 2.

This is my very first outbreak and I really don't know what I'm doing. I feel like the only thing I can do is keep up with my Valtrex and do my best not to make the lesions angry. Oh boy do they get angry sometimes.

I've been a good girl. My sexual history includes all of two people, but my husband has a history of cold sores. So hopefully this is just transmission of type1 through oral sex.

I'm a biologist by trade and having this makes me feel like I'm a biohazard.

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When you got the full spectrum are you positive that they did a blood specific type test for herpes? That's often left out.

Try not to fret about it too much, it's just coldsores that migrated south, nothing more! If you feel like a biohazard then 25% of the American population would be quarantined.

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yep. blood and culture tests. they ended up taking four fat vials of blood that day, could have fainted.

but my goodness, did they really have to scrape all the lesions for the culture test? it made the pain so much worse for the rest of the day.

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"I'm a biologist by trade and having this makes me feel like I'm a biohazard".

I'm a psychotherapist by trade and having this makes me feel like I'm a bit loopy (only kidding and I know that's politically incorrect before anyone mentions it!).

It just means that this doesn't happen to 'other people'. It can happen to anyone - everyone. Bummer.

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