Hello all

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So I just joined this forum. Very happy to find a place where I can express my frustration and concern. I've have been getting cold sores from the time I was a toddler, and unfortunately when I reached the age to start being sexual playful with other people no one was talking about this let alone teaching me how to be safe and not spread it.

To flash foward to the present I'm now 28 and having to tell my sweeties that I in fact have break outs and when I can and can't have sex. The problem is as much I have expressed this and said that we need to be using barriers when it comes down to it we don't! What is wrong with me?

I'm freaked out too because the last time my sweetie and I had sex we 69'd. Of course no barriers, of course no discussion of them at all. A day or two later I started having a break out on my chin. The problem is I have acne too so sometimes I can't tell which is which. I have never had a break out this bad ever. There's no way to hide it other than wearing a scarf and covering it in front of other people. One my co-workers joked about me having a flesh eating bacteria. It hurts and my ego hurts!! Anyone hear me?

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[shocked2hear]

If you are informing your partner that you are in fact infected and they are not acting synonomous with you in order to protect themselves then that is their fault, but it is good that you are aware of this. Please keep in mind that if they too are infected you two can spead it to different area's of the body when it is active. As for HIV, this you are more succeptible to, due to herpes and should take more precautions to protect yourself. You have a virus that may be curable one day and regardless to whether or not it is, it is not one that can kill you in most cases, but HIV can.

I don't know if you have ever heard of H-Balm, but it suppose to rid of it within 24-48 hours. As with all products you should research others opinions of the product prior to buying, but this product does seem pretty legit.