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I would appreciate it very much if someone could help me with my situation. It's kinda of a long story....but your advice would be very helpful. Me and my ex-fiance broke up last April. I did not have sex again until the following November. The person I had sex with I did not know very well. We had unprotected sex. The sex was rough and hard and he was not circumcized. After 2 days....everytime i went to the bathroom it burned on my external part of my vagina and small what i think is now vesicles. I didn't know if it was from the rough sex or what. The burning still occured for a week...one night of extreme pain I decided to go to the doctor(emergency room) He said they looked like the vesicles but did some tests anyways....he didn't everything but the herpes tests....they all came back negative...said i didn't even have any bacteria...he said it probably wasn't anything...but to go a health department and check and she if it could possibly be herpes. I never went. I didn't wanna deal with the idea that i might have herpes. Now...it has kinda came back when i started my period...no burning...but if i scratch enough the vesicles do appear...and my lymph nodes swell (but only if i scratch hard enough)...it looks like clear insect bites (and yes i've done my research on how vesicles and insect bites look the same....) with a red dot in the middle...i don't know what to think please help...or better yet...if anyone could tell me...if there is a chat room here...i can't download anything java and I don't know much about computers...again I'm sorry this is so long...but I'm new here and really don't know what I'm doing. Your help would be appreciated.

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The only way to confirm is go to see a physician. It's worth finding out either way. Wouldn't you want to know for sure so you can deal with the reality? Go so you can stop worrying and deal with a problem in a responsible, healthy manner.

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    • WilsoInAus
      Hello there @momma267 and welcome. There is no reason to believe that what you have there is other than a pressure sore, something that has emerged from rubbing with clothing or butt cheeks and exacerbated by bacteria or yeast.  Note that the first you’d learn of herpes is unlikely to be on your butt, instead where it enters your body, this is usually within the vaginal lips for females.
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      @WilsoInAus could you kindly have a look :) also how long does it typically take for herpes blisters to develop into sores
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      Hi, it is me again, apologies for the recent influx of posts. I've noticed a slightly raised area on the middle of my top lip with what i feel are some bumps. i do have a habit of biting my lips a fair bit and this area is frequented by my teeth. I haven't noticed any unusual/abnormal tingling or burning or pain sensations. the photos are a bit difficult to focus on them but do these seem like the start of cold sores? note: I will be visiting the drs for an std checkup in the coming week. https://imgur.com/gallery/YLVA5us
    • WilsoInAus
      To give everyone confidence that it wasn’t herpes related and conclude as the doctor did that it was a dermatitis issue to refer back to the dermatologist to continue with investigations.
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